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butterflydreams
on 12/3/09 3:42 am
Topic: RE: How YOU doin?
 I am happy with my decision. I have one regret.. not doing it sooner. My goals are not getting met as quickly as I would like to meet them. Some weight gain (unexplained) and some really frustrating stalls have put me in a bit of a funk.

I get depressed when I see people eating things that I used to enjoy. It's hard for me because I had given up so completely that I would eat "junk" until I felt sick. And now I don't touch it AT ALL. I am happy with the weight I have lost BUT would like to see more come off. I am really quite stuck in the 183- 186 range.. I've been fluctuating here for 2 weeks! I met my goal of 182 but haven't seen it on the scale since that day :( So I am pushing myself in the gym and making sure I eat nothing but protein and sugar free snacks to help me through the tough times. 

Overall I can't complain. When have I ever been able to say I lost this much weight in such a short time? I think it's fantastic. 




      
butterflydreams
on 12/3/09 3:29 am
Topic: The Biggest Loser
 I watched this weeks Biggest Loser TWICE. I am just amazed at how much they lose in a week. Even with my tool (RNY), eating right  and working out an hour 3 times a week-- I can't seem to lose 3 lbs in a week! I have got to step it up. I have been trying to eat just protein and cut down on fats. This time of year it is especially hard because of all the chocolates! Ohh and did I mention I loooove white chocolate covered pretzels! Oh man... now I want some! grrrr

Are you watching The Biggest Loser? Did you vote? I really would love to see Danny win. They all have done fantastic but he has made the biggest transformation in my opinion. Amanda looks fantastic! And Rudy needs to keep that beard off, he looks much better without it. 




      
Emilie J.
on 12/3/09 2:59 am
Topic: How YOU doin?

Hi July peeps. Just checking in, wanted to know how everyone was. Still happy with your decision? Any regrets? How we doing on the goals? Comorbids resolved? Happy with your amount of weight loss?

Lots of hugs :)

Emilie, mom, wife, Nurse........superhero
It's about the Wow's!   
luanne711
on 12/3/09 1:29 am - Bradford, PA
Topic: RE: Stressed & Need To Vent!
Misty, you're doing just fine.  Don't worry about it so much, we all fluctuate in our weight and none of us are perfect in eating the exact amount that is recommended.  It's all a matter of the type of food we are eating.  I can't eat very much "meat" but can do some damage on cottage cheese. 

In regard to the stress, just try to calm down.  Stress is not a good thing whether you are a WLS patient or not.  Breathe and take a deep breath.  Things will get better, but you need to focus and realize that it will get better.  :-) 

Sounds like you need to stop beating yourself up girl.  hang in there  :-)  On the other hand, it's certainly ok to vent  :-)

Luanne

I started WL journey on Jan 14, 2009 starting weight @ 342 
                              
Surgery date was July 22, 2009 and started @ 310 and and my goal weight
is 150.00.                   
georgiapeachinla
on 12/2/09 10:47 pm
Topic: RE: Stressed & Need To Vent!
CHI CA we all go through..

But the great thing about it is what you just did.. VENTED!! Let go and don't let it control you.. If you feel that you need additional support because of trying times try a support group.. or do something that may ease your mine and stress.. I actually been going through a lot on my job... HUGE Hater's.. then I go home to a TEENAGER who sometimes feels she knows best for her self!!.. I was really stressed so.. I put some energy into other things such as giving some time to BIG BOTHER BIG SISTER, and the FOSTER CARE SYSTEM IN LA.. sometimes you have to find an out let to let go for a min. You have done a tremendous JOB on losing 100LBS.. believe me you are not alone when it comes to making the wrong choices sometimes!!

Good thoughts
Lisa
"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."   
Lisa 
                                        
georgiapeachinla
on 12/2/09 10:36 pm
Topic: RE: Weight Gain?!?!?!
Don't feel back GIRLIE..
This past month around the PMS time of the month I gained back 10LBS.. UGGHH.. I believe as women hormones get unregulated..my DOC said it will get worser until we get a stable weight.. I started crying in RALPH'S because they didn't have my sugar free frozen YOGURT.. LOL "WHO WOULD HAVE THOUGHT".. hormones causes us weight gain not necessary because we are eating wrong but because we are HORMONALLY, WATER WEIGHT, PRONE Victim's!!! LOL YOU ARE DOING WELL!!
"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."   
Lisa 
                                        
georgiapeachinla
on 12/2/09 10:30 pm
Topic: RE: Competition
I believe we all go through a self IMAGE CRISIS I call it.. I look in the mirror every day and I still see 380lb even though I'm now less than 240lbs.. I believe it takes time just like it will take time to get to our goals.. but it will happen.. just remember like you said "YOU ARE STILL AN AWESOME DUDE"

PEACE & LUV TOO THE JULYER's YOU
GUYS ARE AWESOME SUPPORT!!
"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."   
Lisa 
                                        
robinfrommilw
on 12/2/09 8:35 pm - WI
Topic: RE: Stressed & Need To Vent!
well i figure out why the weight gain again I got my period again. I just finish the provera on Tuesday. I just had it 2 times last month and it was only 2 weeks ago I just had my 2nd one and here we go again. What the provera brings your period again. I thought it was to stop your period. As he had me take it to stop the bleeding.  I feel like crap this morning. It was weird last night all of sudden I had bad cramps and wake up and here it is again. This really sucks. No wonder i can't lose much lately it seems all I get is my period all the time. this royally sucks big time. Still weigh in at 206.2 today .
Robin from Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Distal gastric bypass 7/28/09
6 month supervised diet done lost over 50 lbs pre-surgery
My facebook page is:
www.facebook.com/robinfrommilwaukee  (just put that you are from OH in message to add you to my facebook)     
       View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com

August 2010 weight 138 lbs lost of 179.5 lbs but gain again since my gallbladder surgery Oct 2010 range recentlly my weight got up to 166 and I was in freak mode. I am now down to 152.6 hoping to get back to 135 and started generic wellbutrin
          
robinfrommilw
on 12/2/09 8:34 pm - WI
Topic: RE: Weight Gain?!?!?!
well i figure out why the weight gain again I got my period again. I just finish the provera on Tuesday. I just had it 2 times last month and it was only 2 weeks ago I just had my 2nd one and here we go again. What the provera brings your period again. I thought it was to stop your period. As he had me take it to stop the bleeding.  I feel like crap this morning. It was weird last night all of sudden I had bad cramps and wake up and here it is again. This really sucks. No wonder i can't lose much lately it seems all I get is my period all the time. this royally sucks big time. Still weigh in at 206.2 today .
Robin from Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Distal gastric bypass 7/28/09
6 month supervised diet done lost over 50 lbs pre-surgery
My facebook page is:
www.facebook.com/robinfrommilwaukee  (just put that you are from OH in message to add you to my facebook)     
       View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com

August 2010 weight 138 lbs lost of 179.5 lbs but gain again since my gallbladder surgery Oct 2010 range recentlly my weight got up to 166 and I was in freak mode. I am now down to 152.6 hoping to get back to 135 and started generic wellbutrin
          
dgarzila
on 12/2/09 6:32 pm, edited 12/2/09 6:34 pm
Topic: RE: Competition
Keep up the good work. I am also feeling flabby and fat. One thing I was upset about was when I was scheduled to have my surgery in May and then it was moved to the end of July. Reason being is that I know that it is difficult for my body to let go of weight in the fall and winter months. And of course my body always wants to eat more. I am like a bear that way. And I was furious...

We are all different and yes, I feel depressed also that I have not reached that under 200 lbs weight onderland. Everyone around me says I look great... people want to hire me..people are treating me better...women want to be around me more...just the other day a young woman wrapped her arms around my waist and gave me a big hug with her head against my chest out of the bluet..this has never happened to me. So why do I feel like such a loser? God only knows. I am down from a size 48 trousers to size 40s now loose. But a size 38 is still a little too snug...so I think for me I am getting the feeling like when I was a size 46 before my surgery and my trousers would fit loose but I couldn't get under that weight and felt fat. Now I am a size 40 and get that same feeling.

I also can't see my face because I have to be on stage December 10Th in LA ..SO I have to have a big beard...

Keep your chin up and your eyes forward...we are experiencing something wonderful and new...
        
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