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Topic: RE: Little losses
I'm stuck...no loss here! I haven't really been actively "trying" to lose either, so that likely explains it. Well, at least not consistently. I fluctuate around 179-183. I need to get the last 20 off, but it's so danged hard to get my body to budge these days!! I am hoping it's just taking a rest for a bit and that when I get myself in gear, I'll get the scales moving again.
Topic: RE: Little losses
Im here just been at camp all summer and headed back there tomorrow..Im not losing much either but staying the same 150lbs... when I want to weigh less I go to my mom scales and I weigh 144lbs, lol
sorry just been really busy school is starting back up soon aug 27 i drive school bus so i will be on alot more..
Hope all is well
Barb
Topic: RE: Little losses
Nope, I'm here. I'm doing the flip flop thing with 3 lbs. from week to week. Which may mean I'm stable (so to speak), or that in another month or two I will have dropped a few lbs. Hard to say. LOL.
Topic: Little losses
Well this far out I have to be thankful for the little losses and celebrate. It's getting harder. I lost .5 of a pound this last month, but I'll take it.
PS where has everyone gone? Have we all moved to the graduates board?
Heidi
Topic: RE: One year check up
Heidi
Congradulations on a great visit with the doctor. What difference a year makes. good luck with the plastics. I know if I have any it will be on my own. Sorry I didnt get back to you sooner but was at camp . Enjoy the last month I have off before school starts
Barb
Topic: RE: guilt and worry
WOW! yes, I said WOW what a great accomplishment you have made. I can understand the worry but, you should not feel guilty for doing such a positive thing for your overall health. I have and go through worry over regaining the weight. I think it is the way of eating we have had in the past. We also have to restructure our way of thinking along with the new way of eating. I struggle with snacking and my greatness weakness is crackers. But, I am working on that. Take things one day at a time and I agree this site is a wonderful source of comfort with others that truly understand what we face on a daily basis.
Best to you, Karen
Topic: RE: guilt and worry
Wow Cindy. You have done fantastic but with all the fast weight loss your mind had not kept up.
You need support. Try to come online when possible. Also try and go to local support groups. My surgery center has one once a month and I try and go when ever I can.
The support will help you deal with body image. You will be with a bunch of people going through the very same thing. All of our bodies aren't perfect but we are healthier. Perfect is unreachable, that's why Photoshop was invented. Focus on what you have achieved in one short year.
Money issues well those are always here and now more than ever everyone is feeling the pinch. You did borrow for this surgery to be healthier and that worked. Just do what you can every month to put a little bit back into the account.
You need to step away from the guilt because that will hamper your health.
Don't look back.
Heidi
Topic: guilt and worry
I am worried and have over welming guilt as I had to pay for my surgery and we borried the money from our 401 k plan the fact is I have never had a good self worth image I have a loving and supportive Husband and family the problem are the guilt over the cost and I am having food issues and guilt over the food intake I know I am not eating too much but I worry, my body had changed so much I am having body issues the skin is sagging so much and I know that if we do anything about we will have to pay for that too ,I have lost 170 lbs and I am proud of that I have been in hospitol 3 times with dehydration issues and throwing up I am so stressed out, is this normal am I crazy do I have normal feelings about this and so family member keep asking when I will stop losing weight and why are your arms so big , I never thought this would be always on my mind I am proud of what I have done but I have trouble with these issues please advise thanks Cindy
Topic: RE: One year check up
I was low on iron. It doesn't bother my stomach. I noticed I'm not as cold as I was before taking the iron either. (this was before summer started too)
I did have an issue this weekend but I think that was relate more to too much cheese than anything else. I'm back to my maintence plan of water, fiber and fruit. No cheese for a while.
Topic: RE: One year check up
Excellent Heidi! Were you anemic and that is why you started taking the BA iron? Does it upset your stomach or back you up?