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Topic: Can anyone recommend a plastic surgeon in the Raleigh / Durham area?
Hello All,
I had surgery on July 18, 2006. I am now interested in having a panniculedomy, as well as breast mastopexy / augmentation. Can anyone suggest a Plastic Surgeon in the Raleigh area?
Thanks!
Gwen
Topic: RE: i am sooo frusterated!!!!!!
Have you considered weight training? I've had a few friends that switched from cardio based exercise to heavy weightlifting with some cardio and the results were stunning. So stunning in fact that hubby and I will be doing it this year when he gets back from Gitmo and we reach Japan.
You've done fantastic.
Topic: Disappointed in myself this year
I weighed 245 pounds when I went for my WLS consult around this time two years ago. I weighed 240 day of surgery. I stand 4'11.5".
I managed to get to 154 this year but I have pretty much maintained at 155. This year has been very stressful. My husband was sent to Guantanamo Bay for 14 months. He comes home, finally next month on the 10th. I weighed 164 when he left, got to 154 in January... and I am back at 164 today. I gained just in the last couple months. I know that the loneliness got to me. I had a 20 year old, a 13 year old and a 2 year old to take care of...and its not always a lot of fun. lol
Hubby visited during the year twice and each time I lost several pounds while he was here (I even saw 149 for a day!)...and promptly put them back on once he left. I've fallen into the old trap of eating late at night, grazing, and snacking on tootsie rolls mindlessly.
Although I am not freaking out about the weight gain, I am disappointed. Remember when we first started out and we said a lot of "OH, I'd never do that!" when we'd hear vets complaining about going back to bad habits? I understand now how easily it happens.
I do want to say I LOVE being a size 14. After 17 years of being morbidly obese, I will NOT complain about my size now. My shirts are sometimes size small, depending on the cut! In fact it seems that I've lost all th fat uptop and my bottom half just needs to catch up. I've gone from apple shape to pear shape!
I was thinking about this the last couple weeks... I am certain that my brain has finally had time to catch up with my wieghtloss after mostly maintaining for a year. So now I am feeling fat again...because I am still obese at this weight for my height. That changes in just 15 pounds though. Who knows..maybe my body needed the rest. Now its had it and its time to get back to work.
I've talked to hubby about it and he's perfectly happy with where I am. I've been morbidly obese our entire marriage (15years), so he's happy with any improvement.
Although I am disappointed that I seem to have wasted a year, I also know that without my RNY, I would have GAINED evn more weight while he was gone without it. I would have reached 260. I know it in my gut and in my heart. So I am thankful for where I am at.
So, to start on my next journey, which is heading towards my personal goal of 130, I made a consult with a plastic surgeon in San Antonio. Our next duty station is in Japan and we will be making more money, which will be saved to pay for a tummy tuck and breast lift next year. I plan on having the TT and BL next April... even if I can 'only' reach the 140s. My sagging body is really getting to me, so it will be good to know I have this to look forward to next year.
I have a feeling this year in Japan will be awesome...and with so many things to do there, the boredom and loneliness will stop. I didn't realize just how much I depend on my husband now. That's one good thinng I did learn this year.
Topic: RE: Scared of gaining
Thanks, Jen! It feels good to know others know what you are going through. I should have joined up earlier! Good luck to you.
Topic: RE: Hi to all my fellow July O6'ers !!!!!!!!!!!
I was 239 the day before surgery, 264 at my hightest. I hover between 123 and 125. I never ever thought I'd be here. It's a wonderful world. There are still times I feel fat, sometimes I miss the girls (nothing left but the skin they came in) but I'm never looking back.
I say I hover b/c it seems to depend on the day. I have my fat jeans now, size 6, and my skinny jeans, size 2, it's absolutely amazing.
You all seem to be doing well.
Woooo hooo, what a wonderful world.
Jen
Topic: RE: Scared of gaining
I don't think you're ever a "lost cause" unless you give up. Don't do it!! It's what got you to your highest. Don't be defeated. I also worry about how much I can eat. Some days, like today, nothing stays down....other days, it feels like I can eat what I used to be able to although I know it's not true.
Stick with the tool you were given. Protein first, then vegies. Stay clear of the pasta if you can, if not, eat it last.
You're down 105pounds, really think about that, it's amazing. I'm down 118, I don't recognize myself. I definitely recognize those old behaviors.
Talk to someone, log on to OH...we'll help you through.
Jen
Topic: RE: i am sooo frusterated!!!!!!
What is a boot camp? If you're a size six I would think you look wonderful; however, I still feel fat too!
Topic: Scared of gaining
I had my surgery July 2006 and have lost 105 pounds. I really would like to lose about 10 more just to have a "safety net", but really don't need to lose anymore. My husband is an invalid so I am unable to go to meetings. I've never posted on a chat room before so Here Goes! I'm afraid that my stomach will stretch. Can this happen? I feel that sometimes I eat way too much at a meal. I do this when others are around and I'm not concentrating on my eating. As long as I eat fairly slowly I can eat a regular dinner plate of food. About the only things I can't eat are chicken and pasta. Of course, I never eat sugar as I have experienced the "dumping syndrome" and hate it! I also have so much loose skin. Plastic surgery is out for me as there is no way I could ever afford it and I don't have any rashes or anything like I have read about so I doubt that insurance would cover. Does exercise make it go away. I admit - I don't exercise anymore! Hopefully, I'm not a lost cause.
Topic: RE: Okay, I had a wow moment yesterday....
I am sure that made your week. What a great job you have and you are a testimony that the surgery really works. Keep on representing us WLS patients, girls.
Topic: Okay, I had a wow moment yesterday....
I am the dept secretary for the Bariatric Clinic here in town and we see the patients in a six-month program preparing for surgery. One of the patients yesterday told me I had the cutest little figure and she wanted a figure like mine!!!!