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Topic: RE: Im an ass
Davey-poo!
Andrea and Peter are great huh?
As for my little man......when I told him that we might get a divorce he said this........
"Don't worry mama.....i wont ever leave you and I will take care of you".
I totally lost it! I cried and said..."No baby...I will take care of YOU!"
He is more solid than I give him credit for. He knows about Sophie too. He hugs her a hundred times a day and knows that when she begins to get really really sick...it will be better for her to pass on. I dread this year, but I can make it through!
Sounds like you are doing well Dave! Glad to hear it hun.
C
Topic: RE: Im an ass
****ty timing...you bet! I will be signing my part of the papers on our 11th anniversary! HA!
Im not underweight yet...far from it actually. I have added some fats to my diet....whole milk in my coffee and such. And I now allow myself to have a high calorie treat here and there. It seems to have slowed the loss, but every now and again when the really stressful day****my metabolism kicks into overdrive and I will lose 3-4 lbs in one chunk.
Thank you for your sweet words babe! I miss ya!
Love ya too Tim!
C
Topic: RE: TT & insurance
Well, I'm not sure how all doctors and hospitals work; but my WLS doctor worked with the hospital to get a "discount" for people paying "cash". The hospital bills for my WLS totaled over $53K (I had insurance) and the "deal" the doctor worked for cash patients was somewhere around $25K.
Maria
272/155/145
pre/goal/current
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Topic: RE: TT & insurance
Holy Moly! So the hospital and doctor only got 6400.00 together? thats awesome. But seems wrong that they will settle for that amount if you have insurance and want 26,000.00+ if you don't. You would think that the doctors would take the insurance discount amount from those who don't have insurance but I know that's not how it works. I can't wait!!
Topic: TT & insurance
I thought some of you might be interested in this.
I got my explanation of insurance benefit payments statement from Blue Cross/Blue Shield Michigan today for my surgery.
Total Charges before any coverage $26,670.90
BCBSM paid $6,380.28
Participating provider savings $20,270.62
My Balance $20.00
Needless to say I'm grinnin wider than my TT scar!
Tim
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Topic: RE: Im an ass
Hey sweetie, I am so sorry to hear about all your life's goings on lately. Divorce is hard but the SOAB did not have to file it on V Day, what a "*****".....
I am soooooooooooooo sorry for Sophie and your family. I do alot of volunteer work for the animal shelters here, as our 4 legged friends are very dear to my heart.
I just recenly lost my 15 yr old cat a month ago and my 16 year old dog 2 weeks before that, it was devastating. My prayers and love go out to you and your sweet son during all of this. If there is anythingv we can do, please let us know.
Sue
Topic: RE: Im an ass
Hey Red!
I was so hoping to see your picture back up here you just made my day kiddo!.. I am so sad to hear that you have been hurting like you have been. My heart goes out to you and I want you to know how much you are thought of and with all of us sending out good energy - open yourself up to receive it. Good things will come my dear they surely will.
I have also lost quite a bit. I am weighing in at around 132 thats 158 pounds down now. My loss has seemed to increase the past few months/weeks. I started this whole process at 290 BIG pounds.
Channon good times and bad we are friends.. remember that.
peace
Mo
( I missed you )
Topic: RE: Im an ass
Channan-
Don't beat yourself up. You have a lot of stuff going on in your life and you need to take care of YOU! I hope you are doing OK, and I am SOOOO sorry to hear about Sophie.
If you need anything ever, let us know!
Love,
Andrea
Topic: RE: Im an ass
Sounds like the hubby is the ass. A divorce was the best thing that ever happen to me. It hurt for a while then poof nothing don't even think of him anymore. Don't see him. Don't talk to him. He has not see the kids in almost 5 years now. Hope things look up for you. God bless.
Love
Amy