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Topic: frusteration
I went to my primary dr yesterday. As I'm tired of this bad back- and neck.
so she took xrays- degentertive disk disease came into play again- my back is out of whack- so she's sending me to the chiropractor again. and now- i have arthritis in my upper back and neck. she tells me to stregnthn my core- well hard to do when you're in PAIN all the time.. so she put me on pain killer and a muscle relaxer. also
told her about my most embarrasing problem right now.
i work at a jr high- teaching piano.. well- we all know how jr high kids can be...
well my room got up to 78 degrees- which it will get hotter- but i stood up- and my pants/underware must have been in my fold (pubic/stomach) that when i stood- it was wet.. and 2 students saw it- and asked me if i peed myself and laughed. they're just kids- but it hurt... so the dr gave me this precription to stop sweating so much-
i am just tired of "stuffing" the extra stomach into underware- pants- and swimsuit- i'm suppose to do water therapy for the back- well- it's so embarrasing.. mentally..
i'm also tired of my saggy boobs- i'm still wearing 36 DDD- but one is diffenatly "longer" than the other- I want a breast lift so badly.. they look like
grapefruits- stuffed in a sock... theyr'e big- but so LOW- below my waist without
a bra- but stuffing them in a bra... my upper back/shoulders and neck- headaches everyday...
I asked her if I could be a canidate for the removal of the tummy pannis- and breast lift... she didn't know- and emailed a collegue of healthpartners and once she gets an answer promised to reply to me..
my husband- after I came home and broke down yesterday and told him teh story of the sweat- and now with the arthritis in the back- i need to get this weight off my front- the skin.. i just don't know- i still have so much FAT- on the tummy-
could they remove it with fat...??? he said- he would support it- if the insurance covers it- because it's medical - arthritis- i'm only 32!!!
hope i find out if i can go to a plastics... (i wonder how long i'll need to wait to get the surgeries- this summer??? would be so nice...)
jennifer
Topic: RE: could use some support...
Pam -
I am sorry that I do not have any experience with what you are going through but I wanted to give you some hugs ((((((((PAM))))))))))))! I saw your post on the singles board and then again here and I thought there is no way I can not hug this women and tell her that I am here if you need to talk or if there is anything that I can do for you.
I hope you are feeling better soon!
Nancy
Topic: RE: could use some support...
Pam ~ I'm afraid that I don't have much in the way of help but just wanted to give you some support. My dad suffered from bleeding ulcers. He had some other intestinal problems that eventually led to peritonitis. Given his age (76) and other heart problems, he was unable to fight the peritonitis. Peritonitis can be very serious so it's good you've had some success with treatment. Please keep us posted on your progress. I think most of us think we're "safe" from complications because we're almost 2 years post; however it's important to keep in mind that problems can arise at any time and it's good to know what to look for.
Maria
272/155/148
pre/goal/current
Topic: RE: could use some support...
Hi Pam, wow, sounds like you have been through the mill! I have had no problem like this, but my cousin had a ruptured ulcer last summer and did have to have emergency surgery and just last month, she was back in the hospital with another bleeding ulcer. She is doing better now, but has tons of stress in her life and the doctors think for her that caused or contributed to the ulcers. So I am telling you all this why? Not to scare you, but to let you know your not alone, that there can be complications we all have to be aware of and look out for. Please take care of yourself! Going through a divorce is enough stress for anyone, but with medical things going on too, yes, it is a nightmare. I wish you all the best, fast healing, and please let us know how you are doing. Sharing your story may help someone else having symptoms and don't know what they are. {{{Hugs}}} PM me if you ever need to talk.
Debbie
Topic: could use some support...
Hi all...have not been on here in a very long time, but have had some seious complications from my wls, and wanted to get some some feedback from u all, if i can...was on vacation in Washington state, 4/13, and was hospitalized with sudden onset of severe abdominal pain radiating to left shoulder...was admitted with free abdominal air and fluid, secondary to a ruptured ulcer, was very close to emergency surgery for peritonitis,as well as partially collapsed lung from fluid there as well. but it started resolving with antibiotics. anyway, surgeon is telling me, there seems to be possibly a fistula posibly between the pouch and remnant stomach. it has just ben a nightmare, with continung pain and very low energy.was just getting settled from being newly divorced, and now am dealing with this complication. Could use any input or info any of u may have about this, and of course appreciate ur support.
Pam
Topic: RE: Sue?
Hey Sue,
Glad to hear all is going well! Hope you are LOVING your new job! You deserve it baby! I really don't NEED plastics, but the strangest thing is happening. I haven't gained a pound. BUT, my hips and thighs are a bit bigger now. Everyone says they look fine, but you know how vanity can be. Plus I had some really cute clothes that I really want to wear, but they are tight this year. Seems I have an extra "roll" on my legs now too. Gravity? I don't know, but I just know I want a flat stomach. My "lap" is definatly hanging lower. I'm gonna make an appointment with my gyno and see if he can come up with a medical reason to at least need a tummy tuck. It sure would be nice! I'm tired of wearing a girdle with my tight dresses. GRRRRR
Scott and I will be traveling next week to an interview... I'll post another post about all of that. Sounds VERY promising!
HUGS
K
Please let's get together soon.... I miss you so much!
Topic: RE: Sue?
Hi Sue Girl!! I just finished responding to you on the Plastics Board. You are so great I love you lots.. I wish I could hug you ( after you are all nicley healed of course.. It sounds like you are one beautiful woman Sue.. And I so admire what you have done for yourself.. I will be back with lots of questions and hope you will bear with me. can't wait to see your newest pics when you post them. ...I'm trying like the devil to get this done.. And eventually I will succeed! I will get this excess skin outta here!!! .. by hook or by crook like my Mother used to say.. ...
peace
Mo
Topic: RE: Sue?
Hey sweet Mo, I posted a reply to your Plastics post on the other site.
I am doing FABULOUS. Measurements are 38 - 29 - 38. Not bad for a 50 yr old granny huh? I went to doc today and he asked if I would allow him to use my pics on his website. WOW the "girls" are gonna be famous LOL
I feel fabulous, scars look great, gonna update pics in a few days. The "girls" are trying to settle in. My two bobo's that opened up are almost well. Just a tad bit more healing but I can't even feel them.
I spent a small fortune yesterday at Vickie's Secrets, whoo hoo boy that was fun. Got some sexy nighties in size Medium. Bra is now 36D when it used to be 44a.... Go figure even when I was a fatty never had boobs.
I start my new job Tuesday and am excited about that. My love life is going great, except for my boyfriend is definitely marriage shy? Gotta work on that one.
I see you are closer to your plastics. I am keeping my fingers crossed for ya g'friend. Kimberly you didn't even look like you needed much plastics the last time I saw you.
Luv yall lots,
Sue
Topic: RE: Had my stress test...
Debbie-
Glad to hear the good news. It's funny, I do a stress test yearly and everytime I get panicked before, so I know what the relief is like.
Glad to hear you helped someone find a support group!
Take care!
Andrea
Topic: RE: Sue?
I talked to Kim Shivers, a mutual friend of ours today and she said Sue looks absolutely FANTASTIC! Hopefully she's feeling as well.
I want plastics now. My hips are wider even though I haven't gained a pound. Gravity? Age? GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
K