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Topic: RE: Sunday Morning Weigh In
Eeeeekkk....
stressed out and I dont eat when that happens.
I dropped six lbs this week.
Malibu
Topic: RE: Tattoo Too Much...
Gives new meaning to the term....."Green eyed monster"!
Thanks for the laugh Pam!
Love ya babe!
Malibu
Topic: RE: Malibu where are you?
Im here, Im here!
I've been distracted with changes in my own life and I haven't been feeling very insightful or supporive lately so I though it was best to stay off the board. I'll try to be better.
I didn't realize that my absence was noticed. Thanks for makin this girl feel needed.
Love ya'll!
Malibu
Topic: RE: Day at the ER and Surgery ... Again!!
Oh my goodness - what a mess. Hope you're feeling back to yourself in no time! And take it easy.
Topic: RE: Crappy Turn of Events
Sue~
Oh honey!
What a terrible thing to say! What a heartless *******!
I read this to my husband and he said....."OMG.....what an IDIOT! Like someone 35 would go for him anyway unless he had an A$$ load of money"! I cracked up and realized he was probably right! From what you have said before....it doesn't seem like he fits the Sugar Daddy requirements and he's just got his head so far up his own a$$ that he's delusional!
Holy Hell! You don't deserve this! You're an incredible woman!
Clear your head of this piece of $h*t guy and concentrate on your upcoming test. If you let him get in the way of that........a year from now when he is a distant memory, but you are living with the consequences of your distracted mind......you're gonna kick yourself.
Good luck sweetheart! Keep us posted and dont ever take this guy back!
Malibu
Topic: RE: Crappy Turn of Events
Oh Sue,
I'm sorry. please know that you are so special to us. It's his loss- he sounds like such an a$$. don't cry over him- he's not worth it. SO NOT WORTH IT. you are beautiful. you have worked so hard to get healthy- get out and do some walks- and keep your head up.. meet a man that deserves you for YOU... 50... healthy and wise!!!
much love is being sent..
jennifer
Topic: Crappy Turn of Events
Well all you sweet people that have helped me with my "new man" troubles, guess I needed to let everyone know of the most recent turn of events.
After 6 months of him being totally sweet, kind and considerate. This weekend was our "6 mo. dating anniversay". I even got him a small "happy present" to commemorate the event.
Oh guess what he got me??? An OFFICIAL dumping.
He said, AND I QUOTE..
I realize I never want to marry you so there is no need for us to continue to date, If I ever get married again it will be to someone 35 years old, I don't want to marry anyone my age, 50, because yall look too old... I want someone 15 years younger than me at least.
How freaking dam ****ty was that? How mean and hurtful. I have never, even when I was fat, been hurt like that. And later on after I had been crying for 2 hours, he started hugging me and saying **** like, You will always have me, I will always be here for you, etc..... WHAT THE HELL IS HE THINKING??? I asked him why the hell did he ever start dating me since he knew my age then. He said, he didn't know.
I had really begun to have a better self image of myself after surgery, but now this, I feel less than an inch tall. I have cried in bed all weekend, like an idiot.... No sleep, no food...
And to make matters worse, I have this licensing test I have to take on Friday for work and it is HORRENDOUSLY hard, and my passing or failing means whether I get this huge promotion or not. I told him, why couldn't you do this next weekend, you know I have to have my mind clear to study for this test Friday.
I just want to hurry and get past this hurt, but dang it is hard.
Sue