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The new dude called me 3 times at work yesterday. He came over last night and we just talked and watched t.V. My 20 year old son was there and he is a big kid. My last boyfriend was scared to death of him. My son loves me and want let any man yell or be mean to me. And my 15 year old daughter was there. So we just hung out. But the kicker is!!!!!!!!!!!!! He ask me to come to charlotte Saturday night. He said he didn't have to work Sunday. Soooooooooooo girlfriends and dudes I'm going to knock his socks off.......... He told me yesterday he was a little scared of me. I told him I was 42 years old not 16 and that I was old enough to know what I wanted. And that I wanted him. And wanted him for a year now. Lol he is scared I will hurt him during sex. He has not been with many women. He is so shy. Trust me he want feel any pain...... I really like this dude. I have not liked anyone this much in a long,long time. I am just so excited I can't stand it. But it did make me feel a little better about freaking up my car. It still hurts my feelings but he will make every thing good. Well have a good week end and be good or be good at it. Wish me some sex luck. So I don't hurt him. Lol lol by the way he is only 32 years old. That rocks........................... Love and peace out amy

Looked at your Hawaii pictures. You look great! Hawaii is fun, we went for our first time earlier this year. Glad you checked in and let us know how you are doing. Stop in some Monday and give us an update. I noticed a lot of us are busier, and our postings are shorter and more infrequent. Keep in touch. Take care. -Pam

hi julyers! haven't been on OH in like FOREVER....ok maybe not forever but a couple months i'll bet. i have been busy busy busy. trying to stay busy busy busy. and thinking about being busy busy busy. life is good. i'm feeling good. my husband and i just got back from hawaii. we went to maui. had a WONDERFUL TIME!!!!! we went for 2 reasons, one for my good friends wedding and the other to celebrate our 10 year wedding anniversary (we actually got married on halloween but we are calling this our 10 year trip anyways!) the wedding was beautiful, we went to a luau, we snorkeled, we swam, we sunbathed (gasp...i was in the SUN!!! and i didn't turn to ashes!!) we took a drive up the north part of maui and found a little village with homemade banana bread and coconut candy that was sooo yummy!, we hiked (or at least MY version of hiking) we hung out just the two of us (which is hard with a 5 year old around all the time) my husband went deep sea fishing while i got the most wonderful massage, it was heaven. it was really rough coming back to reality and having to put on "real clothes" and do my hair and makeup. i lived in a swim top and board shorts for most of the trip. it was so awesome. i loved it there. we are definatley going back next year! here are some pics http://photobucket.com/albums/f115/humanfund i am now down 145 lbs. i feel great! maui would NOT have been the same trip if i were still wearing that 145 lbs that i have shed! what a difference! anyways, i want to lose another 20 and i have started talking to plastic surgeons i met one that i REALLY REALLY LIKED! i am hoping to have my arms and boobies done in january and then maybe my midsection (money permitting) done next summer sometime. i don't have time to post very often anymore. i get up and get my kiddo to kindergarten, i go to the gym, come home and shower then off to work. just to do it again the next day. i do have a new development though. i have a day all to myself!!! my daughter is now in school on mondays and i have the whole day to do whatever it is i want to do. i spend my first monday with strep throat. so i am looking forward to next monday to really do what i want and NOT be sick! haha. hope everyone is well. brandy

Good advice Nan!! I would say my hubby has all of these mastered..well except for #8... but i do get sweaty hands so i don't blame him for that one.. plus he makes up for it in other ways!! Ashley - Follow your heart but don't lose any part of yourself in the process. Be true to who you are and if he doesn't value that then let him go... Good luck to you... Oh to be in college again... Have fun, learn lots and most of all keep you little cute self safe!!! Shannan