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Okay-- I had a totally horrifying experience last night. I came out of the shower and noticed how pruny and wrinkly and SAGGY my boobs are-- They just are like shrivel grapefruit (still to big to say prune or raisins) Maureen you're right, all we right about is boobs. I guess I just didn't notice until last night. I am horrified. How can I ever be naked in front of a male again! I am totally freaking out! andrea

Girl I am so with ya. First off I never have felt comfortable nekkid anyway, but even my itty bitty "B's" are saggin. So I feel your pain. But take it from me, I have 2 friends who had the surgery and had huge boobies and their's are hanging wayy low, but they haven't had any men complaining. I am in the same position you are in, I am scared to death to let a man see me.... Sue 273/261/155/145

Me three! My boobs are still a C, but without a pushup bra on, I look horrible! And my belly! My daughter laughs and says "let me see your skin!!!" Ugh. A 17 year old perfect body teenager asking me to see my skin. I could kill her if I didn't love her. lol just kiddin

Oh, you're preachin' to the choir girl! An analogy was made last weekend at a local OH gathering that I went to--- they're like tube socks filled with sand! Yuck!!

Andrea, Big ones, small ones, saggy ones, or firm. men don't care as long as long as you have no germs!!! .. Seriously now.. It's all inside you and how you feel about yourself. If you take that love that you have for your weightloss and yourself ( and those of us who have had this surgery..must loves ourselves because of what we have gone through having it) and project it out there and over those boobs you are a winner!!!.. When you are with the right person it won't matter to him at all... And who are you going to be showing those boobies to? Hopefully only someone you trust and have a deep fondness for and him for you... those boobies are a special part of you share them with love and throw trust into the mix and just have fun!!!.. his body won't be perfect either.. remember...Big ones, small ones, saggy ones or firm applys to a man too!!! with boobie wisdom peace Mo

Mo- Thanks for the boobie wisdom. It helps to put it in perspective-- And to hear from everyone else too. Hugs, Andre

I ALWAYS love Maureen's replies, you always bring me back down to earth. Luv ya girl. Sue 273/261/155/145

THERE IS HOPE!!! I had the sagging thing going on and then my body seemed to "adjust". The skin on my arms and ****o)'s have tightened up. The tummy is a lost cause though!! Good luck darlin, C Leigh

My advise if youre having a romantic evening... get a short nighty ( baby doll kind) that has a little bust control.. something to lift you up and make the girls look good... Just keep it on ... as long as its short enough, it shouldn't interfer w/ anything... Your man will love it !!! I have a few of these... They are tiny enough to show alot of skin, but cover my icky tummy and lift the ****o)'s up !!!! Come out of the bathroom wearing something like this and IM sure youre man will not be disappointed!!!! http://www.henryandjune.com/hj/stprod.asp?pf%5Fid=6408&sid=H91G6275DWH78PVRJW2KHGAL89PB65GC%5F38764%2E8096064815 http://www.henryandjune.com/hj/stprod.asp?pf%5Fid=5835&sid=H91G6275DWH78PVRJW2KHGAL89PB65GC%5F38764%2E8096064815 http://www.henryandjune.com/hj/stprod.asp?pf%5Fid=4957&sid=H91G6275DWH78PVRJW2KHGAL89PB65GC%5F38764%2E8096064815

Ok -- where are Tim and Peter during all of this "show and tell". Oh I get it -- you guys are keeping quiet about the ******y-lacy teddy things because you can't handle the heat that will becoming off of your keyboard!! Come on guys.....where are you? Mandie