A New Dude???

Sue-I checked out your profile. You are the cutest thing ever!!! Even I want you!! No wonder he cant wait to see you again. Congrats on "coming clean" about your surgery. It sounds like he couldn't give a hoot either way. A keeper if you ask me. My sis-in-law had surgery over a year ago and the guy she is dating is all freaked out that she will gain her weight back. He's a total ass and we're trying to get her to dump him, but she's so used to settling for less (low self-esteem because of her weight) that she doesn't see it. Demand the best for yourself! You deserve it!! Oh, just so so cute!! Loves, C Leigh

Thanks Leigh, but I am also dealing with those same issues as your sis. So it does sorta suck if ya know what I mean. I keep thinking, Why does he want to go out with me, just a quick sex thing???? I am fat and ugly why on earth would he want me??? But I have to keep telling myself over and over that isn't how it is anymore but it still tries to creep on back in there if I let myself think it. DAMN will we ever stop thinking like that? Sue