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Mo Crap. Does that mean I have to wear make-up every day!!!??? Thanks for the advice and the guy. I'll check out the Tavern on the Green thingie-- Cheers.

You askin? Haven't been on a date in years but am looking to start again. Definately feeling better about my looks now than in a long time. ( in no small part to the lovely ladies here ) I was hoping to maybe find somebody in my support group as we men are outnumbered about 10 to 1 but most of them are happily married. I don't really drink so the bars are not a very good option. Maybe when I get the whole studmuffin thing going I can find me a sugar mama who can take care of ME. ( and pay for my tummy tuck ) Tim

Tim- You are the studmuffin! hey-- maybe you are the guy! I know what you mean, I've never been a big bar person either. Andrea

Andrea, I met a guy a few weekends ago. I was very upfront about the surgery and even showed him my scars without being asked! He didn't seem to really mind. It helped that he has a scar almost exactly where mine is from hernia repair surgery!! I thought that one was funny. The thing that he can't get a handle on is the eating restrictions. I think he thinks that I'm just being a girl and not eating a lot in front of him. I have to explain all the time that this is all I can eat. Oh, and I did meet Nick in a bar but so far he seems really nice. Tina

No, and I'm on a college campus with 45,000 people. And no one wants me.

Ashley, That's because you're always running away. Okay, okay-bad joke! C Leigh

OK everyone get a cup of coffee, sit down and relax --- this is gonna be a good one. EHarmony did not work. Guy ended up being a whiney, ******** pervert. Oh the ******** wasn't with me but another woman in NC that he never even met, even though we were in a 3 mo. relationship. ("Da real kind") He even bought a secret cell phone to use with her so I wouldn't find out. GO FIGURE..... Me and Kim Shivers, (anudder July baby) go dancing every week and no luck there either. But sure is fun. I have determined that the bar scene ain't gonna work. As far as the flab (heck no I dont show it) it makes me want to throw up. The sex I did have with Mr. Perv, I kept my nightie on the whole time and prayed the wind would not blow in and move it to show nothing. Oh and yes only in the DARKEST of night. But for TMI, I can tell you this, the sex is SO MUCH BETTER skinnier. I have never had good luck on the internet meeting men. Was in a 8 yr. relationship before surgery with a guy I met in a chat room and he was a drunk, cybering all the time behind my back and he started beating me, TIME TO GO DUDE.... I have been divorced since 1997 and would love to find a nice, DECENT, honest guy to date here in MS. Anyone have any suggestions on how to meet single guys? Sue 273/261/162/145

Gosh! Guess e-harmony may NOT be a good idea. I don't know-- everyman I know is married, gay or married and gay. I would love to meet a nice normal man. Ah well. Keep trying I guess. Thank you for the nightie tip however.

Ok all you single people, go here and read this ladies advice! Read the columns and everything on the left. She is RIGHT ON!!! Study it, and know it like the back of your hand. It's NOT that you're not attractive or good enough, it's that you don't know dating etiquette. Trust me! I am back in the dating pool myself. I already met someone I really like, and now I just have to get rid of my husband. I know, that sounds REALLY crass- but we have already had the "we're getting divorced" talks, and we're just trying to figure out what we are going to do. But we have been physically, emotionally, mentally, etc. separated for at least 2 years. http://www.idatesmart.com/about.shtml

WELL I WISH I KNEW... I am ready for a date... I did have two dates with an old flame... Got a lot of attention from other men when had ****tails at a bar... HE has not asked me out since. Nothing happened. I changed - was more social and I do not think he appreciated it.. HIS LOSS!!!!!! Any way- I am terrified to online date- I would be the one to get the wierdos.. I do not know where any one my ages goes to get out and meet anyone. Friends- coworkers all know I am single and they are searching... I am at a loss. I so much would enjoy a date.. I am a kind person- I like fun... Not to serious.. GOOD GRIEF... IF you find the secret to finding the singles let me know... Pattiann