Tomorrow for me too!
I can't believe the time is finally here. I thought it would never get here. I told my husband I can't believe it, I'm excited and he told me he's on the fence right now. He's a little scared and has been a lot more affectionate the last week and especially the last day or two. I don't know how to ease his mind. He has never had surgery so it scares him a lot more than it scares me. I've had 6 different surgeries over the years.
I have to be at the hospital at 8:15 in the morning and it's only 2 miles away. I have had no problem sleeping so far, I hope tonight is no exception.
Good luck to all you the other surgeries tomorrow. We almost there.
Janice 
I was wondering where you were...
Poor hubby.
You know... a couple weeks ago I saw an ex and told him that I was having this on the 5th... and when I went to leave (I was visiting the dog, basically)... he hugged me and didn't want to let go.
I was basically then comforting him with "I'll be ok" stuff.
This is a man that is not supposed to really care about me anymore.
So hubby... he wants you to be happy... but the last thing he wants is to risk what he has -- even if he knows it has the potential to get better post-op.
I'll be thinking about you tomorrow.
Hurry back!!!
Thanks you, I will post Thursday night when I get home. I know he is behind me having this, you're exactly right, he's worried about losing me and I'm worried about leaving him (in the back of my mind).
Hope you're doing well, I've been reading your posts and I hope I do as well as you have done so far.
Thanks again Maria 
Hi Janice and good luck.
My husband was the same way and now I have to go through this with him. He and I have been married 26years , childhood sweethearts and if something happened I don't know what i'd do. But God is always with me and he'll be with yous yoo.Kep us posted as soon as you feel up to it, it's a breeze and I'm not just saying that.
HUGS, CHERI
HUGS, CHERI 
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