To All July pre-ops
I wish you luck, health, joy and excitement for the path you're all about to take. The 7th will be four months for me and it has been the most exciting time of my life!
I know you're all feeling a bit jittery right about now. It's completely normal. I suggest two things: First, go to the "before and after" pics section and look at them and think "this will be me, soon!" Do NOT, DO NOT read profiles right now! Occasionally, you will hit a land mine (a profile of a procedure that didn't go well) that'll scare the holy poo out of you. JUST LOOK AT THE PICS.
Second, time to do some visualization: Close your eyes, a couple times a day, and picture yourself, 12 months from now: How you feel, how you look, the fun of buying clothes OFF THE NORMAL RACK, how other people are complimenting you, the shock of recognition by people you haven't seen in awhile. Feel the feelings, smell the smells, all of it. Take your time. Bask in it. Enjoy it.
Then, just for a minute, visualize yourself, one year from now, if you DON'T have the surgery done.
If you're like me, you'll almost SKIP into the OR!!!
Peace; God Bless! And Good Luck!!
Greg (342/246/178)
Greg,
Your post couldn't have come at a better time. Just this morning I got onto the scale and I've lost 31 lbs since Jan (pre-op). I am scheduled for surgery Tuesday. I was starting to think, well...If i can't lose this much on my own..what is wrong with me?!! Then, reading your post and visualizing myself 1 year down the road without my surgery...wow..I'm not just skipping..I'm at full speed ahead running to the OR LOL
Thank you again!! I needed that!
Jenn
Greg,
You are a sweety, Thank You I really needed that! I read a book that had alot of testimonials with people that had different types of surgeries and didn't research or listen to the rules afterwards....and it has terrified me to the bones...So I really needed the kind words of someone that has went through this and at about my start weight.
Bless you.....
Crystal