did you see this
some one sent me this site. They was having a ball talking **** about me. They think it is funny me being sick. Someone compaired me to there dog????? I am pissed.........
i think the site is
http://www.websitetoolbox.com/tool/post/tek/vpost?id=1552373
hurt my freaking feelings. Thinking about not coming on here anymore. It is not worth getting talking about.......................well, well, well
Amy
Amy,
I tried clicking on the link, but it doesnt work. Anyhow, some people are just rude, insensitive to other people's feeling and have no couth (i hope i spelled that right?) Anyhow, you dont need those type of people and ya know, what goes around comes around. Dont worry about them, you have people on this site that care!
I wish you could see it. Boy they tore me a new @ss..............Women can be so mean to other women. I don't enjoy not being able to take care of my children everyday. I don't enjoy not being able to get out and do things. I work and go home and not bother anyone..........Well if it wasn't me it would have been someone else... It was just my turn to get bashed............Old saying ..........Damn if you do and damn if you don't.........
Thanks for everyone on this board for being so good to me..........
God bless
amy
I read all about it and also saw the post on the main message board. Don't listen to or give "hearing space" to people who just write nasty things on the pretense that they are knowledgeable or or that they are "trying to help" - these are small minded, mean people who are looking for attention and rarely think before they open their mouths and put their feet in.
We know about you and the problems you have had, Amy. We support and love you. We worry about you... and we know that YOU know what you have to do.
Let those people go. When we listen to crap, we empower them to have an effect on our lives. So, don't give them the respect of listening at all.
and forget that this happened. Your body and mind and health are most important here for you and your kids.
Have a wonderful Christmas and take care of yourself. If you need anything at all, please remember your OH July family!
Loveya,
Nan
I posted this there and HERE as well on the main board:
Hello,
just wanted to say this.
This post started out not being about Amy - who is a fellow July-er like myself.
This post started out talking about another person and her habit of posting to her own space and immediately the wise cracks came up - about clogged arteries and such.
I just want you to remember that when we were in that place before when people made fun of the way we looked for a moment.
It seems like all of a sudden the "Mean Girls" thing is happening here.
Now, some of you feel you have the right all of a sudden to say this and that and the other - never realizing for a moment you are demeaning and dehumanizing another human being - for attention or for whatever you may need to fulfill yourself.
I am pretty upset about this.
Amy Jo may not be a nurse or she may not be in your "class" of people or she may not wear her hair the way you think it should be worn or whatever the beef is with people who proclaim an all-encompassing knowledge about what this woman "should be" to survive in this life.
I think a lot of you forgot that we are exposed to 33,000 media messages a day about what we should look like or talk like or think like. I think some of you bought into it and truly believe (erroneously) that if you aren't in that cookie cutter portfolio, you aren't "the right fit" so obviously you have a mental or physical "condition as some people hjave pointed ouit in this post and on the OH posts.
I think that is awfully presumptuous and rude, not to mention mean-spirited.
And the fake "oh, we are just doing this for YOU because we care about you - we're telling you this because we are worried for you .... etc." crap is also ******g me off.
Hannah is about the only person I believe in their honesty on this.
Amy Jo is a decent, loving person who loves her family. She may not be in the same position you are in; she may not have the income or the knowledge you do; she may not subscribe to the way of life you have chosen for yourself. But for goodnes sakes, stop this nonsense and give the woman the opportunity to create and live her life without exposing her to a judgment of it by complete strangers.
Back to my original point: whoever started this thread about the lady with the recipes and all the ones who mocked her for it afterward - shame on you.
Nannygoat.
Thank you so much for the nice words. When they said something about my weight and a dog is where it hurt. Compair me to a person not a dog. I know I am not as good as other people. I know I don't have money. I know I live in a trailer. I don't try to be anyone that I'm not. I don't play rich. I don't play pretty. And why should I play like I am this perfect healthy person when I'm not. People should know that not everyone has a good time with the gbs. Yes I am glad I had it done. Yes I would do it again. But I think I would have gotten another doctor to do it. I love everyone on the July board. I wish so much I could meet some of yaw. If you ever come to north carolina let me know. The biggest town I am close to is Charlotte. I am in little Ablemarle..........lol........lol..........home of Kelly Pickler.......( I love rock) not into country..........Thank you Nan! God bless you. You are a special person that stands out. I wish I could be more like you. But god has made me the way I am. And I just gotta make the best of what he has given me to deal with.
Love yaw lots
Amy