Are you wondering?

Like me where how everyone is doing with their new lives?..I see the posts dwinding down and it's sad really but so a part of this journey that we all go our separate ways I suppose. I still need you guys.. You are much of the glue that held my weight loss accomplishment together and I find that WhenI come here I am both happy and saddened that I see you have for the most part you have all moved on.. So my friends I just want to say that for whatever the reasons that keep you away, changes to this website that aren't as user friendly as we would like.. or your new slimmer life that beckens you each day, I wish all of you the very best and hope that that we all meet along the way.. peace Mo

feel the same way mo... i'm still here... wondering how everyone else is doing.. jennifer

I had been thinking for a few days that I should post something like this but just never did. I hope that everyone is out enjoying their new lives but will always return to those who loved them before surgery!! Have a good weekend, Nancy

loveya so much mo. just so darn busy AND a little depressed about the world and what's happening i think. it makes a lot of us shut down some. you always wish and hope for the best , but good god - things have a way of surprising you. i am steady at 169 - 170. and that's ok with me. i have OTHER problems in my life to deal with at present - lots of things to think about. decisions to make. maybe you can help. how the heck do you know you are with the right person mo? what if it's not what you think in your head should be the ideal - not romantic. not caring. not sexual. not exciting.... but simply (and wonderfully content.) your wiseness is wanted, hunnybun!

but simply (and wonderfully content.) ...You seem to have said it all right there Nandi girl...I think far to often we all get so caught up in what relationships "should " be according to someone's elses standards or the societial trend at the moment.. That we forget how unique our own personal relationship is. It dosen't have to be the most romantic, the most sexual, the most touchy-feely.. It just has to be what works for you. Maybe your heart and mind are more drawn toward a cerebral engaging relationship. Not one that centers around gorilla sex... ( now there is nothing wrong with gorilla sex by any standards.. just not as a basis for a relationship).. .. Look Nan, in my experiance people don't really change. Your husband is the same guy you married and had children with the same guy who has been there when you are down, sick or happy.. your expectations of what marriage should be like or a relationship of any kind might be based on wishful thinking right now. If it ain't broke don't look to fix to much Nan.. ya' just might brake it for good... sending love to you with each tap of the keys.. peace mo peace