Sneak Peak At A Good Thang
Just gotta let yall in on a good thang. "Specially you Malibu. Yall all remember the horrible 6 month dude I was dating that dumped me for a "younger c35 yr chick he hoped to find" (Yea right like he could get and keep one)
Well, I survived his crappy treatment and just gotta let yall in on sumptin. I met this other guy about 8 months ago. We have been nothing but total friends. We have talked on the phone for 8 months. When he found out Dale and I split he asked me out. I said no because I am 50 and he is 41. And since Dale did such a number on my head saying he wanted a 35 year old I figured hell all this guy wants is booty anyway. I even told him last week straight up that I was not looking for someone to crawl into the sack with and if that was what he wanted, then he needed to talk to someone else. I figured he would stop calling but he didn't. He has been calling me every night and every morning on the way to work for about 3 weeks now.
He is so sweet and has continued asking so I finally said yes this weekend. I had the ABSOLUTE BEST TIME of my life. We went to the woods where he hunts and shot pistols at beer cans for a couple of hours then went to his house and rode his 4-wheeler all over his 10 acres. He then cooked me supper and we watched a movie and he took me back home at 9pm. He was a perfect gentleman and I had the absolute best time ever.
Guess I need to get over the age thing, but he also has a 11 and 8 year old children who he gets every other weekend. ARRGGGH kids that age and me 50 YIKES>>>
Oh well, I will keep yall posted on what happens. But so far so good for the ole granny huh???
Sue
I don't know why you keep calling yourself a granny - 50 is not old. I mean, I'm 32 and the older I get, the younger 50 looks to me!! LOL
This is very exciting, and I know no matter how many of us told you that you could do better than 6 month dude, you had to see for yourself and now you have!!!
So stop calling yourself granny and don't worry about his kids - you're not marrying him YET, right? And enjoy yourself!
Sue-darling!
I have to agree with "Skinny"! Everytime I see you tlak about how old you are I cringe. You are one hot lil 50 years old! You are NOT old. 50 is not old!
I have to mention something that jumped off of the page at me though..........
That was all perfect "first date" type fun, but make sure that in the following dates he treats you like a lady......takes you somewhere nice, opens doors and all other courtesies men should be expected to extend. This is something that I am dealing with right now in my marriage....my husband either forgot that I was a lady or never realized it in the first place and it's much harder to demand these things after the relationship has been astablished. Just remember to ask for what you want.....you deserve the best!
We love ya SUE! Go get em girly girl!
Malibu
You are right MC.... And believe me I have had a definite change in my tood towards guys. No more Sue giving 150% and not getting nothing in return. The tables are definitely turned.
And we have to train em right straight up front. And "hijack" you asked about my daughter the other day. She is doing great, fool is out of the picture for 7 months now and we are getting her a car on Thursday so she can finally get a job. It will be hard her being a single mom with a 7 mo. old and an 18 mo. old but she can do it. Thanks for asking sweetie.
Sue
Girlfriend I am 42 years and I only date men between 25-35. no younger no older. Older men just don't do any thing for me. The young men keeps me young and alive............ younger men rock........................................ good luck and forget the other looser. Don't let him screw up your head. He is the one with 2 screwed heads
love yaw
Amy
This caught my eye so I thought I'd send in a line.
I'm 49 and my husband is 42. We've been married 21 years, have two boys ages 15 and 18. I wouldn't worry about the age difference. It is not that uncommon nowadays. Also, the older you get the less difference there is in age realistically. When we first got married it bothered me because it was more noticeable (at least I felt so) but now I rarely even think about it.
When I was single back in my early twenties I dated guys younger and up to 15 years older than I was.
As far as the children go, unfortunately, they grow up quick. If this were to get serious between the two of you I wouldn't worry about the kids. My nephew is getting married ( first marriage) this weekend and he is 35 or 36. They plan to have a baby very soon so he will be at least 47 before his first one is 11!!!
So, good luck to you and I hope you have some fun.
Pam
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