Crappy Turn of Events

He is a jerk and not worthy of you. You deserve so much better. You should feel 10 feet tall. You've endured so much, come so far, and are such a beautiful person. This guy obviously doesn't understand beauty at all. Mourn the relationship, but take care of yourself. It will hard to be successful on Friday if you haven't had any sleep. Thinking of you. Let us know how you are doing. (((hugs))) -Pam

Sue, I'm sorry your boyfriend turned out to be an ass. You're a beautiful, sensitive woman and deserve better than the way he treated you, and I'm not just talking about the boorish way he broke up with you. What the hell was he thinking? The problem is he wasn't thinking at all. Guys don't understand how their words can affect women emotionally. This comes from how we communicate to other guys. Conversations between men are usually short and to the point. Thats fine if you're buying a hammer but not so good when somebodys heart is at stake. Obviously this guy hasn't a clue. Rest assured if you stayed with him long enough he would do it again many more times. He tried to comfort you after the fact but it was too little too late. He probably didn't even know why you were upset, just that you were. I'm not trying to condone his behavour in any way, just explain it. The stuff about you being to old is him trying to justify his decision to himself, it really has nothing to do with you. You should be congratulated for getting out there and trying. I know your hurting now but it will get better. You're a beautiful woman and some day you'll find a man out there *****alizes this and appreciates you. Don't give up. Wish I could give you a big hug........ Tim

Gosh, there isn't much I can say that the other's haven't already said!! I'm so sorry this happened to you , you don't deserve this and girl, you are looking FINE, so he is the one loosing out!!! At least you found out this early what a ******* it is, and not after 5-10 years ... Keep your head up and hang in there!!