I HATE MY BODY

so yep.. auntie came again... so this is number FOUR in a row... first time in my life without medications... so yes, my hopes are high that we can conceive.. i know i've talked about this so much.. so please don't roll your eyes at me.. or think i'm being so shallow/vein or stupid... dh's pregnant niece came over yesterday *she's my age* and they commented how they got preg on the first try and she's due in feb- and she's already showing... dh's nephew commented how her stomach looks like mine.. OH THANK YOU (she's a skinny minnie- anerexic growing up.. and is showing already)... so my feelings got so hurt.. i look preg still- at least i'm not looking BIG/HUGE and 20 months pg.. just 6-7 months- without being... just hurt so badly.. because i was on day two of my period.. MEANIE!!! jennifer

Jennifer, some people can be so insensitive. I am sorry you got hurt like this. Try hard to remember how well you have done this year. You are not big or huge or fat. You have done amazing work getting off your weight. And I believe in my heart that you will conceive that baby you long for. {{{{{{Big Hugs }}}}}}} Debbie

Oh honey, how hurtful. I'm so sorry. I am thinking of you sweetie. Lisa

OMG........What a jackass!!!! In my best Forrest Gump...."and thatstall I gots ta say bout that!" C

Hi Jennifer Sorry you got hurt. Happened to me a lot in my first year of marriage. But I have a question for you. Are you trying to conceive now, because if you are, have you spoken to your surgeon and your OB/GYN? most surgeons do not recommend pregnanct for the first 18-24 mo nths because of malnutrition on the fetus. Be careful with getting pregnant too early. It can cause a great deal of problems. I would check with your docs first. Seriously. Let us know how you make out.. Marie