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Topic: RE: HELP I AM SLIPPING AWAY
Definitely one day at a time; one hour at a time. We can do this!! !
Denise
Topic: RE: HELP I AM SLIPPING AWAY
Thank you so much . I did just that . it is so amasing to me to re read that and put myself back in those shoes . wow I forgot for a moment the pain i was battling w/ inside myself and how determined i was to do this . Somewhere i lost that determination and today i did do better didnt go to curves yet and wont be able to today but i did cut way back on my eating and went back to protein protein protein .. and did good so far . tonight i will start working my tummy again crunches . thank YOU so much for leading me back down that miserable road i once walked . i sure dont want to go back . Being this far out i didnt forget but having lost and been this way for awhile all the attention maybe from men,women etc . maybe i lost myself in that i dont know . But Sherri is back and ready to take control i will take this 1 day at a time .. thank you Hugs
IrishIze
on 4/11/06 3:25 am - NJ
on 4/11/06 3:25 am - NJ
Topic: RE: HELP I AM SLIPPING AWAY
Sherri, I have to say that I feel your pain. I too can eat pretty much whatever I want (except Chinese rice ), so now it's up to me. It is truly a head thing with me. I know what I should be doing and sometimes I choose to do things that are hurtful to myself. This comes from many years of different addictions. I'm working this out - it won't happen overnight and it may be a struggle all of my life. I'm hoping to keep it in control most of the time - I'm not perfect and I won't always be in control.
I do find that my 'off days' are not eating bad foods so much as eating too much food. There are days that I just can't seem to get full. I also find that the more carbs I eat, the more I crave. I am finding that I'm catching myself faster and the 'off days' aren't lasting as long as they used to, usually just one or two days. Sometimes I decide I will just do protein drinks for the day - that seems to break the cycle of eating and snacking.
Sherri, you're the only one who can change the way you're eating. Of course, you'll have the support of everyone here - you're our sister and we care about you. We all struggle, but having people in the same boat somehow makes the struggle a little easier.
I hope you'll continue to check in here with us - we're always here for you!
Hugs,
Nancy
IrishIze
on 4/11/06 3:01 am - NJ
on 4/11/06 3:01 am - NJ
Topic: RE: More to Lose..Tuesday, April 11
Hi Ladies!
I did well yesterday, and I feel good to be back on track. I hope to continue on today; here's my plan:
B: Carb Countdown chocolate milk with 1/2 scoop Unjury
L: Carb Countdown chocolate milk with 1/2 scoop Unjury
D: 4 oz. Ground turkey in spaghetti sauce, 1 cup lettuce
S: 2 oz. turkey salad with 1T FF mayo and a small bit of relish
Carb Fix pretzels (if necessary)
1 scoop Unjury in lemonade
Totals:
Calories: 669
Fat: 21
Carbs: 22
Protein: 97
I'm going out for a 40 minute walk today, and I'm going to continue with my yard work for an hour this evening. If I'm not too tired, I'll do a 30 minute WalkBlaster video.
Hugs to all,
Nancy
IrishIze
on 4/11/06 2:51 am - NJ
on 4/11/06 2:51 am - NJ
Topic: RE: Roll Call... Monday Weigh In....
Great idea Denise!! Any added motivation is really appreciated! It will help me stay honest on weekends, and also help keep me off the scale every day.
Today's Weight: 172
Starting Weight: 280
Goal Weight: 155
Category: "Losing more"
CELEBRATION (OR OPPPORTUNITY TO IMPROVE) FOR THE WEEK: I've got myself back on track (once again). I'm trying to lose my obsession with the scale and didn't weigh in this morning.
Hugs,
Nancy
Topic: RE: HELP I AM SLIPPING AWAY
Sherri,
I have gained and lost weight so many times during my almost 49 years, that I don't have any magic answers for you. You asked the most important question though...
". but i can now eat anything and i have figured out so many tricks to be able to do just that .Why would i even want to ."
I can only say for myself in the hopes that it'll give you some ideas for you. At times I felt undeserving of good things and being successful at losing and keeping weight off. I sometimes felt that not being able to eat the foods I wanted (yes they were junk foods that were not good for me) was punishment and deprivation. Frustration with not wanting to have to deal with me and my situation.
There were a thousand reasons. but the bottom line is that I let my "head" get out of the weight loss "place" that had me focusing on taking care of myself. This time around, I want to STAY involved in going to support group meetings, weighing myself, not as a means for game playing (I can eat caus I lost that 2 lbs, or whatever), but as a commitment to where my body is and where I need my head to be!
I think that the best thing you can do for yourself is to find *some* sort of buddy. A partner in the struggle. If not in your in person life, then a few minutes for an online group. I know it's not easy with the kids and husband working. But YOU MUST take care of YOU!
Hang in there! And please stay in touch. I really do care.
Irene
Topic: RE: Contest--Day 9
Good going, Pamela! Keep up the good work and keep busy! I've found for me that keeping busy leaves less time for eating... Now sometimes - busy can mean drinking... But it's still doing something....
Irene
Topic: RE: More to Lose..Tuesday, April 11
Hi Teah!
I was running late today, so I'm sort of winging it...
Breakfast:
Bagel (from the pool! NO WILLPOWER)
Lunch:
Southbeach - Orange Chicken
Dinner:
Southbeach - Chicken Penne
Snacks:
Philly Swirl
Sugar Free Applesauce
Have a great day!
Denise
Topic: RE: HELP I AM SLIPPING AWAY
Hi Sherri,
Denise gives some great advice. I really don't have anything additional to add, but I wanted to offer support and encouragement. Hang in there.
Teah
Topic: RE: Encouragement for July 2003 Board... We can do this! :)
I should be working, but when I saw this post, I took a look at the 2003 board...its depressing to me. I don't want to be at that point where I'm wondering what happened and have forgotten what it takes to at least maintain the weight where I am at 3 years out.
I want life long success.
Those posts just reinforce that the surgery is only a tool and not a miracle cure. WE CAN DO THIS!
Teah