He left me all alone!!!!!!

Hi Suzy, So sorry that you are hurting. I was in a similar situation. My dad passed away, my baby was seriously ill, so of course, that is when my jerk ex-husband decided he could not stay for a few more weeks. Well, to make a long story unbearable------ Today all I have to say to my ex is - Thank You! Because if he had not left I would not be with the husband that I have today. He is everything I never knew I always wanted. Remember the good Lord does not shut the door without leaving the window open. (or Bhudda, or Allah, or whoever floats your boat) Take Care of yourself, Ronell

HI suzy, your husband was a ******* for doing that to you. I suppose it was his way to try to control you one last time. Kick his sorry butt to the curb and forget him. You are a strong woman and you will survive this. It hurts, but remember you must love yourself and be good to yourself. Looking out for the kids is a smart and wonderful thing for you to do. Don't let that jerk get the last word by causing you to cancel your surgery! Be Strong and move on with your life!