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maureenmosti
on 7/11/10 12:41 pm - Mexico, Mexico
Topic: officialy 9 years out!
Just to share!
Nine year ago I started the most wonderful journey.... In these 9 years I have accomplished things that before surgery were only dreams.

Ride a bicycle for hours
River rafting
Buy in regular stores
Take long walks
Use a bikini
Eat and feel full
Sit in an airplane with my purse on my side
Climb 1 hour of stairs in a church in Rome
Take a bike tour of Amsterdam
Dance salsa, tango, meringue, rock...
Walk 10000 steps a day
Lead a support group for 7 years twice a week
Snow walking Lake Louise
Climb to the Tepozteco Pyramid
Cross my legs
  What this surgery gave me is a chance to Live!
Maureen
Gina S.
on 7/6/10 10:12 pm - CINNAMINSON, NJ
Topic: RE: AFTER 6 YEARS AND IT IS ALL COMING BACK......DAMN!!

I had surgery 2 1/2 years ago and had gained back 20 pounds. I notice I don't dump nearly as easily as I used to, and can eat larger portions.

I have also noticed my main problem and trigger is carbohydrates/sugar. When I eat carbs - anything that has flour (including 100% whole wheat), potatoes, rice, or sugar I start craving carbs and just can't stop. I wake up and immediately want carbs. I think of them, crave them all day and am never full.

Then somehow I managed to go cold-turkey and cut carbs and sugar out. I went through a period of "withdrawal" like a drug addict - I craved carbs really badly.
Once I got past that, I stopped craving them, ate healthy foods like veggies, natural raw fruits, lean meats, cheeses, and the weight started to drop back off. I eat "breadless" sandwiches. I put the turkey, chese, lettuce, tomato on a plate and eat it with a fork. Instead of peanut butter on bred, I dip apple slices in a little peanut butter. I  stopped craving the carbs/sugar, although I'd get a craving a little here and there like a drug addict. I felt lighter and healthier and more energetic. I have lost 8 pounds of the 20 and plan on losing the rest.

I am 100% sure it was the flour and sugar and starches I was eating. I am an ADDICT to those things and they make me feel always hungry and irritable and tired and sluggish. I suspect a lo of us out there are addicted to sugar and flour and starches. I recommend avoiding them COMPLETELY - once you get past the withdrawel, you'll find you feel alot better, your appetite is more under control, and the weight will start coming back off.

 

maureenmosti
on 6/17/10 8:11 am - Mexico, Mexico
Topic: ALMOST 9 YEARS!!!!
WOWWWWWWWWWWW THIS NEW LIFE IS  GREAT. i WOULD DO IT AGAIN.
WHAT A RIDE!
Maureen
Debbie M.
on 7/31/09 8:59 am - Scottsboro, al
Topic: RE: wow! 220 ponds gone! in 2...

I cant believe it has been 8 years since WLS. This is a way of life changes. not 50% but it changes your life 100%. This surgery is a TOOL not an answer. After a few years it is very easy for people to gain back ALL there weight.(and revisions are hard to come by)  I have seen this with my own eyes. I have kept my weight off....-220bs....but I do gain 5-10 pounds and I have to watch my diet. I also have a lot of health problems due to WLS but I think I would not be alive today if I didnt have WLS. Pro's and con's....I need more skin taken off and I hope that will happen in the next few years....
WLS has been a big ride in life. It can be a wonderful positive experience, but remember there is good and bad in everything!
I wish everyone GOOD luck and hang in there!

LLinderman
on 7/27/09 2:49 am - TUCSON, AZ
Topic: RE: AFTER 6 YEARS AND IT IS ALL COMING BACK......DAMN!!

Donna,
You are not alone in this!
I had the RNY proximal done in July 2001; on the date of surgery I weighed 265 lbs.   I never made it to my personal goal of 145 lbs, although I did get down to 159 lbs (briefly).  My weight hovered in 160's for several years and I felt and looked great.  I was only working part-time then and exercised faithfully every day.

After 2005 my work increased to full time and I had less time to exercise.  I no longer "dumped" and old habits crept back in.  Problems in my marriage added to the situation.  In 2006 my dad died after a traumatic period of suffering.  We were very close and the grief overwhelmed me.

For the past 3 years I have battled severe depression and once again have stopped exercising and my eating is out of control.  As of today I weigh 199 lbs and am so disappointed in myself.

If you have found answers, please share them.  I stopped posting because I received nasty emails about being "negative".

Linda Linderman

Rhorae
on 1/24/09 5:36 am
Topic: RE: AFTER 6 YEARS AND IT IS ALL COMING BACK......DAMN!!
Hello

I too am from Toledo and find that after having surgery July 2001.   I lost 135 pounds with the surgery and felt great.    I wasn't skinny but it was good for me.    I find that I am putting weight back on.  It is a huge mental game.   I also find that I feel hungry a lot.   Not sure why?  I am disappointed and do NOT want to put all the weight back on.  I don't want to be a statistic.  I heard or read somewhere that after 10 years many people have put their weight back on.  I don't want that to be me.    What is your story?    Are you talking to any groups or doing anything?

I recently joined a fit swim exercise program and joined with 1st place 4 health to try to get  my mind wrapped around this obesity disease.    I am working on it but it is a difficult process.

What about you?

Thanks
Rhodena Wentland
Rhorae
on 1/24/09 5:31 am
Topic: RE: Wow! I have been a LOSER for 7 whole years!

HI

My name is Rhodena Wentland  and I am from Toledo, Ohio.  My Surgery was in July 2001.  I lost 135 pounds with the surgery  after weighing in at 325.   So I was down to 191 pounds.  I looked good and felt great.  I have not had any problems from my surgery except for a little dumping now and again  otherwise the surgery and recovery went very well for me.  I have not had any tragic events in my life  but find that I have regained 50% of my weight.  I am struggling to get it back off.  I know i have beern lazy about it but i just couldn't wrap my head around it.  I tried but  I am hopeful that recently I have come to a new conclusion and will be successful before i regain the remaining weight that I lost.

Wondering about you too.  Although i can see that you had some distractions in your weight loss journey.   I am working on it but boy it sure is a tough disease to conquer.   Who would have thought after all that determination and the risks involved in having the by pass surgery that after 7 years I would be in the battle again?

Have you spoken with anyone else with this problem? I decided to come back on line to see what others in my situation might be doing.  Looking for some support and ides.


Thanks Rhodena

Jennifer Lynn J.
on 7/20/08 2:29 pm
Topic: Wow! I have been a LOSER for 7 whole years!
OK, I see from some of the posts that I am not in this battle alone! I have gained weight, lost weight, then gained it back. I am currently at 206 and I think it's because I have stopped exercising. Stress can add a lot of pounds! Now that my hubby is on the mend and no longer battling cancer, I think I can refocus on my own weight loss. When he was sick, I fattened him up and when he had his surgery, he lost all of it! He and I joke because he lost some of his intestines when to be used for his "new" bladder. So now we both eat smaller, AND we both are around the same weight, so it's like we have each other to battle the weight gain. Support is very important in our struggle with weight loss/gain. I am glad to have a good support system and I hope all of you that are dealing with the yo-yo effect have a support system in place. Feel free to email me if you have comments, questions, or concerns. Cheers! Jenn.
Jules S.
on 12/9/07 4:51 am - New Jersey, NJ
Topic: Wild times
Can't belive its been so long. Life is so different now--I have lost half my body weight and don't have an ounce of fat on me. Amazing journey indeed.
Donna Gray
on 8/23/07 9:25 am - Toledo, OH
Topic: AFTER 6 YEARS AND IT IS ALL COMING BACK......DAMN!!
I cannot get over that I have begun to put the weight back on. I do not eat CHOCOLATE (still have GAS and DUMPING), although my PORTIONS are OUT OF CONTROL. My LOWEST that i have been down to was 165# (my I plateaued at 180#) and now I am AFRAID to get on the scale....the last I looked I was at 248... I wish I knew what to do...I have thought about having the LAP-Band done....did not know if I would qualify.
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