A previous co-worker who is also obese, decided to inform me I was taking the easy way out (regarding weight loss):crazy: , so I replied well if this is going to be so easy then we can do it together and of course she replies with if I'm going to lose weight I'll do it the right way so it stays off. My position there was eliminated in March (God-send), I can't wait to go visit after my first 100 pound loss. My surgery is on June 23rd. I'm so glad I stumbled upon this site, I love it. GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!

The one I get (from other morbidly obese people) is "I know lots of people who have had THAT surgery and have gained all their weight back!" It's beyond me why people are so discouraging. Good Luck with your surgery. Mine is on Tuesday!

Well guys, my time has come and gone now. I had surgery ( lap RNY) on Tuesday. I came home from the hospital on Thursday and it's been an adventure! Since most people on here wonder what it's like right after surgery I'll just go ahead and be honest. Not to discourage anyone but just to give you an idea of things to expect realistically!!!! Okay, So after surgery I had nothing to eat or drink for 24 hours. Then they do a barium swallow test to check for leaks. Since I checked out ok, I was allowed a sugar free popsicle. Keep in mind that I hadn't had anything to drink for 24 hours after surgery. I swear I thought my mouth was going to grow closed it was so dry. The popsicle was alright. I ate a little less than half of it and felt like I had ate Thanksgiving dinner! After that, I was allowed water,broth,and sugar free Jello. All of which, I could only have a few bites or sips of before filling extremely full. For example, I can only tolerate 2-3 oz at a time. I was encouraged to walk while in the hospital to avoid blood clots and help with gas pain. Another thing that most people fell to mention, GAS PAIN! omg, it was really intense and painful. I walked and walked, I was given the nickname "champion walker" by my surgeon because thats about all I did trying to rid myself of this gas pain. I would strongly advise anyone who experiences this to not strain, it only makes it worse.. and you more sore. I started passing the gas at the end of day 2 post op along with diahrea which is a common side effect of the surgery. I'm still having problems with both. The more you get up and move around helps. So now I'm home from the hospital. No more nurses and doctors telling you what to do, Hmmm... Kinda tricky, this is where your self control kicks in. Something you haven't had in a while. Only you have absolutely no choice left but to control yourself. This is about when the emotions kicked in high gear for me. My body has been transformed into something new, my mind is still the same. My mind is wondering why we aren't eating. My body is saying no more, no more after a few sips. Another thing I hadn't completely prepared myself for. However, I must say that even if someone said I would have to eat a cheeseburger to save my life, I couldn't. The smell of food makes me EXTREMELY nauseated. Which is a good thing, it makes food repulsive right now! which is easier lol. OKay to sum it up, I have been in alot of pain and wondered, "Did I make the right choice?" But I honestly have no regrets this far. I am thankful that I had the courage to take control of my life again. Instead of being controlled by food. The first few days after surgery be prepared for emotional and physical changes to happen, but don't give up, things get better with each day. Rita hugs to all!!!

I did not have RNY, but I would think this would not be normal. You have to be able to keep some liquids in or you will get dehydrated. I would call your doc.

I'll have to agree with Tasha about walking. That has been the best thing for me post-op. I still should be walking more. Just don't forget about your liquids while adding something else to do.