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Topic: RE: Has anyone's Lap Band failed to work, so you had it removed & had the Gastric Bypass done instead??
Wow sorry to hear this, I Know your depressed. What does your Doctor say? Can you tell after each fill if it seems tighter or harder to eat? I had the regular by pass and my sister in law had the lap. She did great the first month, cause her mother in law followed her every footstep and she did only protein drinks but didn't lose for months after until she finally went back and complain enough to get a larger fill. Have you tried going over to the lap band board or the revision board to post your questions there? I wish I could help but I find it strange that your Doctor isn't concerned makes me wonder if he is really filling it enough....try the lap band board. Also try your home state board and see if anyone there has your doctor and if they might be having the same issues. Good Luck!
Topic: RE: Need Advice
While I had the regular by pass, cause I know I could cheat with the lap, my sister in law had the lap. She had a real issue and still does with hunger. She had hers in December and it just got better simply because at first most doctors don't fill it to much. They wait and see at your follow up than do little fills...keep you coming back. Now she lost 40 pounds her first month...how, she had a mother in law that followed her around and she only did protein shakes. Of course she figured out how to snack and cheat or make herself extremely sick by trying to eat to much because her head hunger told her to eat and she felt "normal" after her mother in law left. She dropped her insurance after a few weeks of having it done cause they were self paying insurance which was costly compared to just paying the doctor. Luckly though she hasn't had any complications, just not going to the doctor when she needs too on schedule. Hence she has gone back and he did tighten it much more cause she was not loosing. It is not easy as I told her no matter what procedure you do. You have got to follow life long rules and real hunger and head hunger comes back to all of us at a point. Just remember to drink alot of water and get your dense protein in like meats. They will fill you up longer. It is amazing how much time we think about foods and what we are going to eat. You need to do something that usually distracts you from eating. Get out and get away from your kitchen. Don't keep the junk in your house cause your family doesn't need it either. Keep healthy snacks, like sugar free icees found at Walmart or sugar free koolaids or jerky when your allowed to eat it. Sugar free puddings and low fat low carb whip creams. Honestly though soft foods slids through easier so if you can do things like tunafish or soft meats your better off cause they keep you fuller longer. Remember though you have done a great thing taking control of your life and 14 pounds lost is better than gained. Let your doctors office know how hungry you are and talk to the nurses, they will help you. Don't be afraid to call maybe they will tighten it sooner. You will succeed!!
Topic: RE: Stalling...already????
The dreaded 3 week stall isn't a third as bad as the 3 month stall or nearly half as bad as the 6 month stall and the year stall well can go for a month easy. Thing is while your weight isn't moving the inches are so you are still losing. Trust me the scale even after weightloss surgery is not your friend and will ruin a good morning the moment you step on it. There is no way not to lose so early out since you can't eat much anywho. They call it starvation mode but whatever it is if you get in the habit of weighing everyday the moment it happens or heaven forbid you go up a pound which starts happening when your periods kick in, it sucks and works you mentally. Start a new habit along with your eating habits.....stay away from the scale. If you have to do it only do it once a week, same day. Everyone if you go back to last years June board you will see have averaged out to just about the same weight loss a year later. Some lost it quick and others slow which can also depress you. Again don't get into the daily weigh in game. I didn't notice if your board does a weekly weigh in. This is something alot of the monthly boards do but for some people who don't lose as fast as other it depresses them. Don't stress it, keep following the rules cause everyone is different. I promise you a year from now stalls won't be an issue as much as... Have I stopped losing for good and the dreaded saggy, saggy skin issues. It would of been so nice if they could find the worry nerve and cut it the same time they did our surgery LOL! Start looking ahead...New Years is 5 months out and you will be able to wear something Beauftiful and sexy! Remember though even if you are stalling it is no big deal because the inches are coming off. Start measuring. And alot of people go to www.fitday.com and start a food journal that will break down how much your eating in carbs, protein,fats and such. It helps you alot. Good Luck!
Topic: Need Advice
I had Lap Band on June 27th. At first I wasn't very hungry, but now I feel like I am hungry all the time. I am trying very hard to follow the diet, but sometimes I feel like I dont even have the Lap Band. Any suggestions? I have only lost 14 pounds.
Topic: RE: Stalling...already????
I am 5 weeks out. I have stalled at 2 weeks and then at 4 weeks. It sucks and its tough but you will get through it. I was crushed both times when I stalled. Just keep up with your protein and water andy you will pull through.
Topic: RE: Stalling...already????
first of all it is only teusday.....lol, i am three weeks out also, but i have started on soft foods.....i sat on the same weight for like 4 days to but it will come off, just keep at it. i have lost like 22 lbs today. how about you. i talked to my mom about it, (she had surgery a year and a few months ago) and she said that sometimes your body tries to resist the surgery and it is harder for it to come off, kinda like you said, it goes into starvation mode. ull do good..
tiffanie
Topic: Stalling...already????
I am about 3 weeks out and am stalling already. I have been sitting at the same weight since Friday. I am doing everything to a T that my doctor has said to do. I have read that some people stall out around weeks 2-4 because your body is in starvation mode and trying to hold onto everything that it can. Is this true? It is getting really frustrating as I am still on a full liquid diet. I haven't even started soft foods yet, that isn't until next week. Any advise or experience in this department would be GREATLY appreciated!!!!
Topic: RE: almost a whole month out.....
yah i guess that i should stop comparing, but you know it is hard not to cause you think well how is she or he doing that and what am i doing wrong..you know. but like you said everyones is different
thanks. tiffanie
Topic: RE: almost a whole month out.....
I am going to be 3 weeks out tomorrow and have only lost 21 pounds (and that was in the 1st 2 weeks and none this week!). Maybe we shouldn't be comparing ourselves too much to others because everyone stats are different. At least that is what I am telling myself.
Marjorie
Topic: RE: 4 weeks out and....
hey im a almost 4 weeks out, and yes burping is a problem...lol, but i really dont think that it goes away its just like gas pockets that are in your pouch. how much have you lost i have only lost like 21 lbs and i was like 15 at 2 weeks. but if you go look at other ppls. they are all different, but it all comes off. i looked at one ladies and her lose at 2 weeks was 34 and 40 at a month and then another was 13 at 2 weeks and 20 at a month...so yah they are all different.......ur proly not doing something wrong....idk there is much that you could do wrong the first month..lol, just make sure that u are walking for atleast 20 min a day....ttly, tiffanie