my skinny friend

Just wanted to update you all on my skinny friend that had been making rude comments to me and told me i took the easy way out of losing weight. she and i worked together she went to work with another real estate company she has not called me since she left i have emailed her, text, and called her she has not called me or anything.... sooo i am not sure what happened except that i think with my weight loss, and my new home, i sent her over the edge... that was over 3 weeks ago.....i am very sad over that.........i even said to her if i have done anything to offend you please let me know............(which i really haven't but thought i would give her the opportunity to vent at me if she needed) well i am praying and dealing with it and at this point i am just going to leave it in God's hands and if it is meant to be it will be and if not well i will just have to move on. I just can't belive my very best friend for over 5 years is being like this.....i am just beside myself over this..........

Oh Crystal, I'm so sorry to hear that your friend is being this way. Sometimes we don't really know who our friends really are until something changes. I know there are thin people that only like their heavier friends because they are no competition and they know they will get all the attention. Unfortunately, those aren't really friends. I do hope that at some point this woman will realize how she has been acting and want to have a real friendship with you. If not, consider it her loss and do move on. You are a sweetheart and deserve to have better friends surrounding you. Love ya girl! Pam

Pam, thank you so much for your support!! It means alot to me! Love ya too girl!!! Crystal

Can I be your skinny friend when I lose another 30 pounds? I promise I won't treat you bad or ignore you!

awww CLEO YOU ARE ALREADY A GREAT FRIEND AND YOU AREA ALREADY THERE (SKINNY) GIRL JUST LOOK AT MY HOT MA MA WITH HER BOOTS AND ALL!!!(just for the record ...she could never wear boots like you WEAR them!!! LOL) thanks for the cheering up!!! you always make me feel better!!!! love ya!!!

(Raising hand) Hey I dont mind being the fat friend ! LOL But I know how you feel I'm kinda in the same boat as you. Except my friend is fat and thinks I betrayed her because she was denied surgery and I wasnt! Go figure I have moved on ......Trying to make life easier and less negative here.

Oh April that is just awful.......I just really can't understand...but I guess that I am just different when it comes to being a friend.....when i say that I am a friend to someone..it's just not a meaningless statement it is really felt from my heart...these people who get jealous and act negatively towards us because we are getting healthier, and smaller just blows my mind...... Thanks for the cheering up though!! and i am glad that you moved on!!! (((hugs to you)))))

oh and by the way you look amazing!! sexy girl!!!!

That's rediculous. I know I get a lot of back handed compliments... It makes me sad that people that are supposed to be friends, and who are supposed to care can be so unsupportive over good things that happen! I went through the same thing when I got married. So the few friends I had left after getting married have sorta dwindled away... At least I have my family! My hubby! My best friend who is my mom! You're a good person crystal, you don't deserve to be treated this way! YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU GIRL! TOO BAD NONE OF US LIVE CLOSER TOGETHER! ********HUGS********

That's how I feel too girl I have my husband,children, and my family...... THank you sooo much for your support!!! I wish we all lived closer as well!!!!!!!! AND I LOVE YOU TOOOOOOOO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!! Crystal (((( (Hugs))))))