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Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
Stop!
Us ladies have to stick together. We all have this worry that we will fail even at this. We won't.
Sure, we are probably entering the end of our "honeymoon" period and will no longer lose as fast as we have. So now we have to implement what we have learned about eating and exercise.
We can sabotage ourselves. We can graze all day with high calorie foods; we can drink high calorie drinks; and, we stop exercising and give up. But we won't do that. We've spent too much time, too much worry, for us and our loved ones, and too much money to destroy our chances at the life we've wanted for so long.
So no ladies, we will not fail. We are going to stick together, help each other out and encourage each other until we ALL reach our goals and live the lives we all desearve.
One day at a time ladies. Each days goal: 1. Write down everything you eat, and I mean every little piece of food you put in your mouth, as well as drinks; and 2. Exercise. Even if you are too tired or don't have enough time, do something as simple as walking down the block, stretching, or situps. Just do something so that your body knows it will do something every day.
Each day I take a minute and close my eyes and see myself jogging on the beach. I am fit, trim and happy. It is that dream that awaits my arrival.
Remember your dream and walk, jog or run to it.
Have a great day all.
Ben
aka Tony Robbins Jr.
Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
I thought I was the only one that was feeling this way. Lately I have been so discouraged because I have not lost anything in a while. I've only lost 70lbs and have another 70lbs to go. Last night I kept telling myself I'm a total failure for not being able to lose any weight. I've lost inches but not pounds actually as I'm typing this i'm sitting very comfortably in size 14 jeans which is exciting but I hope that this isnt the end. And lately I have been in a terrible mood which two weeks ago i could totally blame on PMS but GOSH! I can't blame my mood on PMS any more. Maybe I'm just upset about not being where i want to be (weight wise) I was hoping to be at the very least at the 200lb mark by my Doctor's appt next month but at this rate I'll be lucky to lose 1 lb this month. I'll keep drinking my water and working my butt off at the gym
Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
I think at one point or another we all feel the same way. I am just under 200lbs and am 48 away from my goal. A few years ago I got down to 194 (thru diet pills) and am now worried that I will get stuck around this same weight again. I am 5 months out today and this month am down only 3lbs :/ I am also worried once the "honeymoon" period is over I will be even slower than I am already!!!
So just remember you are not alone! I am going to a support group tonite and that always gives me a boost. Also seeing people that havent seen me in a while gives me that extra confidence boost. I am looking forward to seeing my NUT again next month (as well as my surgeon) to see what I will be doing after the first 6 months.
Good luck!
Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
I keep thinking the same thing. Because I can eat more..and tolerate more I feel I am done losing. I keep going from 206 to 208 .. back and forth ... I know I snack more than I did the first few months, but still not out of control and usually nuts or something. Calories are still under control and I would venture to say on even my worst days I don't go over 1200 calories... but I can't help but feel I'm done losing.. I'm just trying to take it a day at a time and not obsess over it. I still have 40 - 50 lbs I would like to lose.. My exercise has been BAAAAAAD... so my husband and I are going to join the gym next month.. maybe that will help...
I'm still much happier and 85 lbs lighter than last year at this time. That's a good thing!
Blessings,
K.
Topic: What was on your menu this weekend?
Well, I want to start this off this morning. I feel like I have been eating and eating this weekend, but when I went to enter it in FitDay last night, it wasn't as bad as I thought. I went to the coast this weekend and to a neighbors gathering - fresh grilled crab (caught off our dock), fried flounder, yum. It's funny, the way it was being cooked was perfect for me - first the flounder, then half hour or so later, the grilled crab. The neighbors (who are good eaters) were trying to get me to fill my plate up with the mac-n-cheese, pea salad, italian bread, hush puppies but I was happy with my proteins - flounder and crab. Only way it would have been better was if they were grilling the flounder instead of frying it. But, hey, I wasn't cooking and as much as I can eat, didn't make much difference for a once in a while type of thing.
Sunday:
B - 1/2 ham/cheese kolache (too heavy)
S - protein drink
L - nothing
D - 1 grilled blue water crab, 4 oz fried flounder, 1 bite bread, 1/2 bite hush pupplie (yuck- very greasy)
S - peanut butter & pretzels
Saturaday
B - protein drink
L - 1 chicken taco al carbon with guac & tomatoes at the food court in the mall. I ate the fillings and not the tortilla (see you can get good food at the mall food court)
D - cereal no milk (my bad)
S - pretzels
Water - pretty good, not fantastic
Vits - um, kinda only did these half way
Exercise - 3 laps around the pond each day plus 4 hours walking round the mall shopping
Alcohol - none
Topic: RE: difficult days
Sometimes it is just difficult to eat - especially if you are trying to eat dense protein foods. I would say split your meals up into 4-5 smaller meals. When you snack, make sure it's protein rich food and not carbs. Some of my favorites quick protein rich snacks are soy chips, jerkey, cheese sticks, boiled eggs and low-carb/Light N Fit yogurt.
On the water, I have to set up a schedule or I forget. I make my protein drink and drink it on the way to work - it has to be done by the time I pull in the parking garage. First bottle of water needs to be done by 9am, second by 11am and then I have one more bottle in the afternoon (I'm usually fuller after lunch and it's hard to get that in) and then another protein shake on the way home. I've been doing this for about 3 months and it's become a habit. Of course weekends are much harder because I don't have my system.
I agree on the holiday blues. It could be that or it could be that our honeymoon time is comeing to an end. Just hang in there. Post on the board for support. Go out with a supportive friend. Just know you aren't alone.
Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
Hang in there, Aly! About this time, we are really starting to slow down the losing which makes us question it. The weight will still come off -- it just won't be as quick as the first 5-6 months. Make sure you are getting your protein, vits and water in. It will be slower, but just think of it as training for new eating habits.
I personally don't think 2 boiled eggs is all that much. From time to time, I will be able to eat much more than usual -- sometimes even want more than usual. As long as it's not a habit all the time, I think it's just your body crying out for food. 2 eggs is about 150 calories and pure protein. I'd venture to say you probably used to eat more than 150 calories for a meal.
Good luck - you have had an awesome weight loss so far! Keep up the good work.
Topic: RE: difficult days
I'm not experiencing any of these problems...maybe just a little insomnia at times, but I think that's just due to my age! I do know that many, many people get the blues around the holiday times. Could you be experiencing some of that? I was taking little sips of water after I ate cause my mouth seemed so dry...that made me hungry faster then if I didn't drink after eating. I don't know if that's your problem, but once I stopped sipping after meals, I stayed full much longer. I also keep myself pretty busy and make sure I drink, drink, drink! Are you having difficulty getting your water in because you just don't drink it, or is it that you can't keep it down? Sounds like it may be stress related. I'd call the doctor and find out what they can do to help. Keep us posted and I will keep you in my prayers! Lot's of love and ((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) coming your way! Hang in there Cyndi!
Topic: RE: I?m Worried!!
Hi,i too think i'm not going to lose any more .some say it took them 2 yrs to get to there goal wt .girlssssssss we got to hang in there and do it ...lol..yahooooooooo all of us are doing great .Brenda in tx