OHHHHH PAM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
geez, pam must be real busy playing with her new boobs! PAM, i miss you, my wls sister! you can't forget about us already!!! i haven't seen you lately, not even on the grads board or the ps boards. is everything ok? how are ya feeling? where's the new ps pics? check in with us, darlin! love ya!
hugs~mary jo
Oh you guys are so wonderful! We must have really established a connection to each other on here....I have been dealing with some Drama.... that's with a capital D.
Well, I went to my ps follow-up on Wednesday. That went perfect. Doc says everything looks perfect and I have nothing to worry about. YAY!!
Then Thursday I woke up sick with a sore throat and bad cold and a pulled muscle in my neck. I had to go to work. So I went. I said "all i have to do is make it through the work day - then i can go home take a muscle relaxer and go to bed." When I got home, my daughter was fully dressed for her CHORUS concert. Sooooo i went to that. Got home at 9:30p.m.
Then i went to my one-year appt with my gastric bypass surgeon on Friday. A two and half hour drive - one way. He's so proud of me! I had my hubby take a picture of us together and I want to get that on my profile too.... I just gotta get hubby to get the pics off the camera card. He gave me a script for B-50 since I haven't been taking that - didn't know I was supposed to and he gave me a script to get my blood drawn....so I still have to do that. So all was well right??
We make it back home and I grocery shop...drop the food off at the house ... .take the little man to T-ball. My neck is still killing me and all I can think is I can't wait to get home and take that muscle relaxer and go to bed. THEN my 18 year old calls me on my cell phone from Ocean City (Senior Week). He was in an accident.
I have to give you the background on that trip. I DID NOT want him to go. So I told him he couldn't take our car out there. So his girlfriends father told Jon - "Oh, they won't let you use their car? You can take one of ours!!" (grrrrrrrr) So, my son has a car, his own money and he's 18. I couldn't stop him from going. I just told him I wish you would stay home, I have a bad feeling about this. Well.... now he's wrecked their car. Thankfully, no one was hurt. He rear-ended someone and tore-up the entire front-end of their car. SOOOOO 9:30 p.m. after the T-ball game - (STILL wishing I could take that muscle relaxer) I was in my car driving 4 hours to Ocean City. I found him in a house where he told me only 3 people were staying - the TRUTH was there was more people than I could count in that place. BODIES EVERYWHERE! Sooooo I took him to a hotel. The next morning I tried to get the car out of the tow truck place's impound and they wouldn't tell me where they were or let me pay for it until my husband came out there with a trailer to haul it home. So I had to sit there until my husband could get there.... now 6:30 p.m....then we drove the 4 hours home. Throughout all of that....sick....can't turn my head to the left....never did get that muscle relaxer....I got only 4 hours of sleep....and just wanted to have a nervous breakdown.
I was so mad at his girlfriends father (who, by the way, REFUSED to let his own 18 year old daughter go on this trip). Now, Jon has 3 tickets and an accident on his record. It cost us over $600 to pay the towing, impound fees, gas, lodging, and ticket for something we were against from the start. If that man hadn't offered up his car, Jon wouldn't have an additional ticket, an accident on his record, I wouldn't be out $600 smackers, I wouldn't have to worry about Jon being dropped from our insurance...it's just a mess. The ripple effect caused my this man's "generosity" is just unreal. I hope he tells his kids "NO" to something and someone else steps in and over rides his decision and eliminates him from the decision making process one day. And I hope it goes just as well for him. I know - that's bad...but SHEEESH!!!! How would you feel??? I just thank God Jon wasn't physically hurt or worse through all of this. I just don't know what I would have done!
I've missed you guys too! I need a lot less drama, a whole lotta peace and time with my buddies.
Pam
(((((((((pam))))))))))))))) sounds like you need a big hug!!!
thanks for dropping in and updating us on what's new. i am sorry to hear about your son, but THANK GOD he is ok! hopefully he realizes that a mother's intuition is ALWAYS right!
girl, you need to take a break! you are going to drop! promise you will try to make some ME time for yourself and get some much needed relaxation. i hope your neck starts to feel better soon. flexeril works wonders, so get some if you don't have any!
i go for my 1 yr appt tomorrow. i have to bring my 4 yr old with me, that should be fun! i wish i could see my surgeon, but i bet i will have to see the NP again. i haven't seen my surgeon since 8 days post-op. it will be a nice surprsie if i get to see him tomorrow, but i am not getting my hopes up! i will update tomorrow.
don't be a stranger, ya got it? love ya!!!