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onelove
on 6/18/06 3:16 pm - Sugar Ln, TX
Topic: 2 years and loving it
I am 2 years out and I haven't had any problems other than being tired so now I take monthly B12 shots to help. I would like to gain some weight(5-10pds) but find it very hard to do so. Is their anyone else out their with this type of problem?
IleneRachel
on 6/11/06 11:04 am - Massapequa, NY
Topic: RE: Hi June Bugs!
Hi Carla! Glad to hear that you are feeling good. As for the weight gain, I know how it is. I had been down to 166 at one point, but somewhere along the way I gained some and have been staying around 175 for quite a while now. I'm sure that if I were to go back to basics and really be conscious of what I'm eating - and maybe even exercise some, I would start to lose weight again. I just don't have the motivation right now. I'm feeling pretty good and am so pleased that I'm in "normal size" clothes, so I'm really not unhappy! Having lost over 120 lbs, I now am starting to live life more. I've joined the Red Hat Society where I am making some new friends, and I'm also learning how to make beaded jewelry. My life may be more than half over (I will be 56 in August), but that doesn't mean I can't do things to enjoy my life! I don't think I'd have this attitude if I hadn't had the WLS. My next thing is to decide about is if I am brave enough to have a tummy tuck and thigh lift - that is, if I can find a way to afford it! Well, I hope everyone else is doing well. ~~ Ilene Rachel
terrycoles
on 6/11/06 7:21 am - Corpus Christi, TX
Topic: this is the week.....
Hi Y'all, Well it was June 14th two years ago that I had my RNY, the surgery that changed my life. Going into it I knew I'd lose weight, just never knew how much and how I'd end up looking. I literally am LIVING A DREAM! I never thought I'd be this small, a normal weight! To sit in front of the the tv and watch models and actresses in their tight jeans and know that I have the same type of body they do. I remember watching an episode of Desperate Housewives a few months back when Lynette wanted to buy a $1500 white suit and they showed the size and it was a "4 petite." I smiled and thought to myself, "wow, I could wear that." "Wow I'm the same size as HER." Last week I had my husband put a few recent pics on my profile page, including one of me in a bikini. Yes at 45 years old for the first time in my life I CAN and DO wear a bikini. Ok so my body isn't perfect, but it's a hell of a lot better than it was 2 years ago. I have to remind myself constantly on weekends that I CAN put on a pair of shorts and go out. I had the extreme makeover this year too. With the help and blessing of God we managed to come up with the money to pay for it by scrimping and saving and me cashing in my 401K plan. It cost me over $16,000 total for all my plastic surgery. In Nov '05 I had my tummy, thighs, back and butt done. And in Feb just four months later I went back and had my arms and breasts done. I love my new body and constantly am amazed that I look like I do in a bra and panties....or even naked! I went from a size 26 to a size 3/4 in pants and smalls and x-smalls in tops. I went from sitting on the couch not wanting to be seen to being out there dancing with my husband at clubs. We've been taking dance lessons for about a year now....ballroom, country, swing etc. Back in Jan of this year I started taking belly dancing lessong to show off my new flat belly that I paid so much money for and worked so many hours in the gym to get. I have a recital in Aug and I have 4 routines to learn. Recently I was looking online at belly dancing costumes and it occured to me that this shy, wallflower that I used to be is now looking at sexy, exotic, dramatic belly dancing outfits to be seen in public in. What have I become? I'm so much more confident now and so much more in touch with my femininity and sexuality than ever before. I love to wear sexy tops with some cleavage showing since I never could before. Yet I realize that there still is a challenger before me....the every day challenge to keep doing what I've been doing to keep the weight OFF for good. I know that I can gain it back if I don't make the right food choices and continue to exercise. That terrifies me!!! But I suppose being scarted is a good thing in this case. I do and will continue to attend support group meetings here locally to interact with other wls patients. Hopefully I can be an inspiration to those I meet considering this way of life. And seeing those that are just starting out on this journey that are morbidly obese like I used to be will remind me of where I came from, and what I don't want to go back to. I do need to take this thing one day at a time. I don't have to worry about how I'll be eating weeks from now, but I just have to live for today. Everyday I need to ask myself "did I do the right thing today? Did I eat right today....get in enough protein, fluids, vitamins?" Did I stay active and exercise today?" And hopefully in 20, 30 years and more I'll be updating my profile saying how wonderful life has been since my weight loss surgery. I hope to grow old as a tiny, skinny, healthy little woman. Thanks to all of you that have given me support along the way. Continued success to all of you! Sincerely, Terry Coles 276/125 Oct '05: abdominoplasty, belt lipectomy, thigh lift Feb '06: breast augmentation and braichoplasty
Madame
on 6/10/06 2:10 am - Oxon Hill, MD
Topic: RE: 2 years out and doing good
Way to Go Pattie CONGRATS ON YOUR SUCCESS!!!!!
carlaruth
on 6/9/06 12:40 am - Winston-Salem, NC
Topic: Hi June Bugs!
Hi everyone, Just checking in. I'm doing well, but in the last month or so I have started to gain a few pounds. My health is great though and I'm feeling pretty good. Carla
patfine
on 6/8/06 7:01 am - SOLON, OH
Topic: 2 years out and doing good
Hi all! Im almost 2 years out and doing good. Not many problems i am down 100lbs was down 110 but put 10lbs back on when i quit smoking in January. Thats ok i need the weight even though i am 147 i am a size 8-10 and am happy with that. Pattie
Kelly_D
on 6/7/06 12:55 am - Philadelphia, PA
Topic: RE: Happy Birthday and Anniversary to all June Bugs!
Hi Debbie, Today is my re-birthday. It's amazing how time has flown by and how much this surgery has saved our lives. Happy Anniversary to all of us Juners. I pray that we all continue to do well. Kelly
Madame
on 6/5/06 8:53 am - Oxon Hill, MD
Topic: RE: 2 year post-op thoughts
Thank You Terry, You know...come to think of it unless I look at a picture it's hard for me to remember those fat days. Never thought that would happen because I still saw the fat me up until these past 4 or 5 month. Best of luck on your journey and CONGRATS on your success!!! Sharon
terrycoles
on 6/5/06 2:06 am - Corpus Christi, TX
Topic: RE: 2 year post-op thoughts
Well said!!! It's hard to believe it's been 2 years already. My husband says when he looks at me now he can't remember me ever being fat. He thinks of me now as his tiny, little wife. Continued success to you! Thanks for your words of wisdom to all of us. Keep on moving and doing everything right! We all know we don't want to ever go back to where we were two years ago!!! Take Care, Terry Coles 276/129
Madame
on 6/4/06 10:56 am - Oxon Hill, MD
Topic: 2 year post-op thoughts
WOW - 2 years really flew by. Life has changed so very much and I am absolutely LOVING it!!! I've met many many new people and shared many happy moments, laughs, tears and fears - and it's been so so worth it. I've been trying to shift through my feelings upon reaching this point in my WLS journey and I find that they are all over the place. First, I feel so greatly blessed to have had this surgery work for me. In 2 years I have had no complications, no major issues and I have been able to stay physically grounded and spiritually uplifted. WOW - that's a miracle all by it's self. Secondly - I feel Proud of myself. I actually set out to do something and I succeeded in a major way and hopefully helped a few others along the way. That just has me beaming with pride and satisfaction. Thirdly I have met so many wonderful people who are on the same mission. Our attack plans may be different but our goal is all the same - to live a healthier, happier, longer life. The people with whom I've really connected in these two years (you all know who you are) have contributed to my success by their kind or funny words of encouragement. The swift kick up the butt during the times when I have been off track. And the many shoulders to lean on, cry on and reach for strength - You never know how your experience positively affects another - so keep sharing the stories because you never know who you touch. I would strongly encourage anyone who is walking this road to DO THE WORK. Really understand that you have been given a 2nd chance in life - don't blow it. None of us got cut open and rearranged to fail. Your success is up to YOU. Do what you were told. Eat right, get your protein and vitamins in, get plenty of rest and GET YOUR BODY MOVING. Exercise is the key to you reaching your goal. Some said I was a fanatic, I don't think so - but if I was IT WORKED and it was well worth it. I lost my most weight in the first 9 months 110 pounds. It has taken the next 15 months to lose 30 more. SO what does that tell you? You must work like HELL in the beginning to get off to a great start. And then you MUST continue the work. Don't get discouraged - every pound lost will be hard fought for and will get you closer to your goal. Fix your head - understand that it is what will make or break your success. Whatever emotional issues you had prior to weight loss surgery will quickly become compounded with the rapid transformation you will go through. It will either help you to become a stronger more well rounded person or it will destroy you and your relationships. I found that ever so often I have to pull back from people, from the routine and the fast pace and put myself in check. I need the solitude and the peace of my own company to make sure that the woman I am becoming is a woman that I enjoy and like being. I believe in doing the head work and because of that this journey has been an enjoyable one. I have now entered into the second phase of this journey...maintenance. I feel good, I look good and my body is in the best shape that it has ever been in. The mission now is to keep it here. I have reached my goal and am now trying to find a routine that will keep me here. The right balance of food, exercise, vitamins, rest, and protein. This is just as hard as the original battle. I am determined that I will win this one as well. You know that when I get it down I will share the secret. Anyway, enough ramblings from a 2 year post op. Please know that I love, respect, and appreciate you all - where ever you are in your journey and where ever you are in my life. I thank you all that have supported me and assisted me in my ventures. Look out for great things to come from me, as I have a lot more to bring as far as weight loss support, physical fitness, my newsletter, C & L and all my many other ventures. If I can be of assistance by all means seek me out - I am never hard to find. To all my Angelettes, BabyPhat, Lexxie, MzShoeGoddess, GBetta, and Platinum - I Love you all and am so very proud of you. I appreciate the faith that you all have put in me and will do my best to continue to be the best Angel I can. I promise to do a 2 year photo shoot and get them up soon. I am still in class and moving onto another phase in my life so while you don't see me as often I am still always here. Stay determined, stay focused, remain positive and let no one deter you from your dreams. Sharon 275/135/135 "Living and Loving Life to the Fullest"
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