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Topic: RE: Plastics
I would love to have plastic surgery, however, I have not even tried to get my insurance to approve it, because I know that they wouldn't. I have lost 95 pounds, I am still 20 pounds +/- from my personal goal. I don't have a flat tummy by any means, but I never did. My probelem is my legs, thighs in paticular. They look terrible. I don't have a hope of putting on a pair of shorts this summer, I will have to stick to capri's. I really need a thigh lift, do they do those? LOL I can live with my tummy if I must, but the legs have to go. I don't have any idea what the cost would be. I would be interested in hearing from anyone that has had any plastic surgery - what are the requriements?
Topic: RE: Has anyone gained any weight back after about a One and a Half Years after surgery?
I thought I was so lucky because my eating increased but I didn't gain any weight. Well, the gravy train has ended. I have gained 10 pounds. It feels more like 20 though. I think I've lost muscle and gained fat in it's place too. I feel like a blob once again. I was so proud of the fact I didn't have a roll hanging over my pants when I sat down anymore except now it's back. How depressing!
Topic: Plastics
It seems like everyone has plastic surgery done. I have applied (and been denied) twice. I'm still trying but I'm amazed at the number of people that have tummy tucks. I never made it to goal (missed it by about 20 pounds) so I don't really feel like I deserve a flat stomach. It would be nice but the rest of me is still pretty lumpy plus I've gained another 10 pounds, making me 30 pounds from goal. I guess I'm writing this post for 2 reasons. One, I need your support and well wishes as I continue to try for plastics and two, I want to hear from those of you that are at this same stage and have already had plastics.
Topic: RE: Boring
Hi Char. Sorry to hear about all the vomiting. You know, the grass is always greener on the other side ****il you get there). I actually have the opposite problem. I NEVER vomit. Not even ONCE since my surgery. This might sound like a good thing to you but actually it isn't. I have no restrictions on portion size or food type. It all goes down just fine. I think my stoma was stretched early on because of me not vomiting. I would get a clog and it would just work it's way through and stretch my stoma (I believe). One time I even heard a loud "pop" as it made it's way through. I thought I was doing great by not vomiting but I think in the long run it was not good. It's now just me and self control once again (and that's what made me obese in the first place). I wish you luck and do hope your vomiting settles down to a tolerable level. Take care.
Topic: RE: Boring
Hi everyone,
I had my surgery on 6/23/03 Lap. I have gone from 240 to my current weight of 144 - 146, from size 24 to my current size 10 - 12. I have only once gained anything and that was a fast 5 pounds. I almost cried. But it came right back off. However, I am not losing any either. I can eat about anything except hamburger and fast food. I worry all the time that I will gain, but only allow myself to get on the scale a few times a month. I don't want it to get away from me. I don't follow any "diet" because I have had a problem with vomiting, I am just glad when I have what I call an "eating" day. I can tell when I get up in the morning and have my tea if it will be an "eating" day or a "no eating" day. My husband is really upset that I vomit all the time. I do really good on soup and usually have it at least once a day. I had rally hoped that by this far out that I would be over the vomiting thing. I go back to the doctor on 4/8/05 so I am going to talk to him about it. However, the doctor that did my surgery has left the hospital and I will have to see a new one - I am not happy about that. Sorry, I am going on and on....Lets keep this page going, it helps to chat with people at the same stage as me.
Char
Topic: RE: Has your appetite expanded?????
I had my surgery on 6/23/03 and have gone from 240 lbs to my current 145 lbs, can't seem to get to that 100 lb mark! I also, have found that some days I can eat, eat, eat! But then some days, like yesterday, Easter Sunday, I could not keep anything down. I don't know what to do. I have made an appointment with my doctor and will see what he says. I can eat probably 2-3 pieces of pizza, bread does not sit very well with me, neither does any fast food except an occational chicken sandwich from Burger King, but my real problem is my craving chocolate. When everything else makes me vomit, I can keep chocolate down. Now that is really scary. They have done that scope thing on me twice because my stoma was was getting very narrow. I have not gained anything, but have not lost either. However, I am losing inchs, every so slowly. Does anyone know how long we will continue to lose pounds and inchs? I would really like to lose another 20 pounds but I don't think it will happen. Maybe with summer coming again I will get out and walk. Thanks for letting me vent.
Char
Topic: RE: Boring
Hi Jen. That is an awesome weightloss. I'll bet your surgeon is in awe with your success. You must feel so great. Good luck and keep us posted.
Topic: RE: Boring
Hi Julia. I hope you were able to make it into that size 12 dress. I bet you look and feel great either way. I am all over the place with sizes. I can go any where from 12 to 16. I never made it to goal which is kind of sad. I think I'm afraid to see myself that small. I was about 190 pounds all of my life (with the excepting of getting pregnant and ballooning to 315 and never losing it). As soon as I reached 185 I stopped trying and probably did somethings to sabotage myself. I tested into things pretting early (vacation to Mexico at 6 months) and from then on it was down hill (or not so uphill). Sometimes I'm very proud of myself for getting this far, othertimes I feel like I failed. I think I have body dismorphia but backwards. When I was losing weight I felt I looked better then I did. Now that time has passed I don't feel quite the same. I know I am still large (especially since my shirts are still large and x-large). I hope you have continued success. Keep in touch.
p.s. cute halloween story.
Topic: RE: Boring
I think it takes a while for our skin and body to adjust to the weight loss. People told me that I looked kind of bad for a while but now I look fine (at least the parts they can see). I hear your struggle about eating all the time now. I struggle with the same thing. I wish I had some ideas for you but if I did, I wouldn't have the same problems. I just got back from a business trip to Europe and I took some time for visiting some friends. Let's just say, me and Belgium chocolate became quite good friends. I am trying to get back on track now but those carbs have a very strong hold on me now. I feel so out of control. I have at least begun to make some better choices which has put some of the cravings at bay. I have to just keep trying. I don't get sick from anything either except whip cream/cool whip, sugar free ice cream and cereal with milk (even low carb). I can eat huge amounts of food (probably as much as my 210 pound husband) without feeling full. It's very scary. I try not to eat to feel full and stop earlier but sometimes it's hard. I think I'm broken. I know this is only a tool but man, did it have to go away so quickly and so completetly? Good luck to you and keep in touch!
Topic: RE: Boring
Hi Nicole. It's great that you're still losing at almost 2 years. I stopped losing at about 1 year and proceeded to gain a few pounds back. I really only have myself to blame. I am trying to find the strength to pick myself up and start all over again. I don't eat a lot of junk but my portion sizes are more normal now. Sometimes I can be really good and others I am not. I went out jogging yesterday but unfortunately my dog kept getting freaked by the sound of my feet hitting the ground and kept stopping. It was an interesting run to say the least. I had fun though so maybe it will get me back on the exercise track. Good luck to you and I hope for your continued success. Keep me posted.
p.s. I think I posted this to the wrong person at first so if this is a duplicate, please ignore.