What not to do 3 days before surgery!

So last night I was poking around the forums and ended up on the Memorial page! Not the place to go three days before your surgery!!! My husband walked into the room and saw me crying. He asked what was the matter. I told him what I was doing. He advised me that now was not the right time to look at that, but to consider what I was doing and why I was doing it. So some day go and honor our brothers and sisters, but don't do it now. Jayne

Yeah I did that too recently and its so sad and scary.

Hi Jayne Today is your day!!Good luck and best wishes. The memorial page is so sad. Before my surgery may 2/08, I was so focused on would I survive that I did not really think about after the surgery. So far so good. Have a pain free and uneventful recovery!! Di

Oh man. I used to do that when I was pregnant.