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Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
I love you Cyndi, you have been such a wonderful friend. I seem to always turn to you when I need someone to talk to. You are the best!
Love and hugs,
Esther
Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
Hi Donna,
Things happen in our lives that cause the weight to go up and down. I hope you are feeling much better now. I am just glad to hear from you. I have missed all of you and we need to gather the Mayers and get them back on here because I miss all of you. You are all my support and keep me going, You are doing such an incredible job of losing weight and it will keep coming off. Thank you so much for responding.
Love and hugs,
Esther
Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
Hi April,
Sorry to hear about your mom. I lost my mom 7 years ago and I still pick up the phone to call her when anything happens and I need to talk to her. I have a friend who told me to talk to her when I am alone and she will hear me and somehow will let me know that she is there. My grandson is such a miracle, we are still amazed at his recovery. He is doing so well. We are taking him this morning to have another CT SCAN just to make sure everything is okay but we can see that he is okay just by his actions. All of you have been so dear to me and I feel blessed to have you always there to help me through the hard times. Thank you for being there.
Love and hugs,
Esther
Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
So glad your grandson is doing so well!!!! Sorry your family has gone through so much.
I have not weighted as the scale went up a little for me. But I had unexpected emergency surgery Monday which now has me home this week. So I am back to the basics nd getting back on track.
Sat night after dinner I was in horrible pain that would not stop. Now that think about it I have not felt well for some time after eating. It was my gallbladder and my bariatric surgeon took it out Monday. The on call wanted to take it out Sunday but I called my surgeon and they ended up admitting me for a day of antibiotics and he worked me into the surgery schedule Monday. And I actually came home Monday night. He peeked at all his handiwork while he was in there and said all looked good and now I have scars on the right that mirror the ones on the left LOL! I feel really good now though and could probably go back to work tomorrow but my dr says not until monday. I am still pretty sore so I will comply. I am trying to get back to the basics and back on track while I am home.
Donna
Topic: RE: Hi everyone...Update from John
Sorry Christine has been having such a hard time. Hey was going ot pass on something i just learned in case she wants to try it. there is a protien by the same company that sells Syntha 6 called Lean Desserts. If you mix a scoop with 4 oz of mild it makes like a pudding and is in yummy flavors Chocolate Coconut, Banana nut, Cinnamon roll. I mix half a scoop of cinnamon roll to one pacakage of plain otameal after it is made and stir in mild and that makes that oatmeal 20g and it is good. I got samples of it at smoothie king.
Hope you both continue to do batter!
Donna
Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
Such good news about your grandson. Your entire family must be estatic to have him home and doing so well. I agree w/ Cyndi. Most of our Mayster Family has moved on to enjoy their new lives. This includes me. I am not here as much as I used to be, but never do I forget anyone here. The encouragement and support I have been given remains priceless to me. Never was this so true last month with my mother's unexpected death. Several of you messaged me to express support and sympathy or offered me their email addresses & home phone numbers if I neeeded them. My sincerest of thank yous to all.
Love & misses, April
Post op = 259
Today = 156
Lovin' my RNY
Topic: RE: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
Esther, I'm so happy all is well with the little guy. Thank God his tumor was easily removed and won't come back. It's a tough way to start losing again but I'm glad all is well.
It makes me so sad to see the May board so lonely. I know, we're all busy enjoying our new lives but I miss you guys so much.
As for me, I'm still bouncing between 138 and 141. My surgeon said I could probably go down to 135 but he doesn't want me lower than that. I don't either. Sometimes I think I look too thin. lol Who'd have ever thought we'd say that. lol I have quite an appetite some days and none at all others. But, I wouldn't trade my RNY for anything.
Hugs to you too!
* Cyndi *
Topic: Monday Weigh-in or Check-in
Hi Friends,
Well this week I finally started losing again but for a difficult reason. My 20 month old grandson was diagnosed last week with a brain tumor. Thank God because of all the prayers, the tumor was surrounded by a cyst and the doctor said it was like pealing an oranger and the pealed out the cyst and the tumor popped out. The tumor was the size of a marble and it was benign and the type tumor that never grows back. He had an MRI on his entire body and had no other tumors anywhere else. He is home, walking all around, laughing and loving life and so are we. Prayer is powerful. It sure knocked the socks off me though. I couldn't eat and lost 3 pounds.
Before surgery 279.5
Last weigh in 158
This week 155
Total week loss 3 pounds
Overall loss 124.5
I love you all and miss you.
Love and hugs,
Esther
Topic: RE: Hi everyone...Update from John
Okay, I hate to say it, but Christine and I are a lot alike. LOL I tried three proteins, hated all three and tried to give up. Then I found my SF orangeade, mixed it with the Fuzzy Navel protein and, FINALLY, I was getting my protein in. It took me a long time but I finally did it. Now that I'm so far out, I've slipped on being "obedient". lol I'm not a rule follower either. lol I guess I'm lucky that I'm still in the 138-141 range. My aunt's stepdaughter just had a horrific 4-day hospital stay thanks to popcorn getting stuck where her RNY incision is. She's about 4 years out. So, now I'm afraid of popcorn. LOL My new food is Herr's Honey Wheat pretzel sticks. Sadly, I could eat the whole bag. LOL
Losing 40 pounds in two months is terrific!!! I think she's doing great! Is she taking Biotin? My early neglect of protein cost me, literally, about 1/2 of my hair thickness. I used to struggle to get a ponytail holder wrapped around twice. Now I can wrap about four times. That makes me really sad. But, I wasn't smart, didn't follow all the rules and that was what I got.
I'm so happy you two were able to get away. This has been such a horrible summer for us. Mark's business is busy so no vacations for us. Every person we've hired has been a HUGE disappointment so I'm working like 18 hour days. I hate owning a business. But, I LOVE *my* business. lol Britt's looking forward to school because she's bored out of her mind. I feel terrible but there's not much I can do.
Tell Christine to hang in there. The first few months always seem crappy. Look how much I whined in the beginning. LOL And, remind her we *ask*. You never exploit. LOL
* Cyndi *
Topic: Hi everyone...Update from John
Hi all,
We just got back from our summer place in Michigan. As you may recall from last summer, we spend some time at our summer home there and have to come back in time for the boys to start football. I know that several of you have asked for an update on Christine and we appreciate your interest. You can always count on the Maysters of 07 to be kind, caring, and considerate. Christine has had a rough go of it. Her first couple of months were less than perfect and she has been pretty miserable. She expected a textbook case like mine and she just couldn't get things pointed in the right direction. The first thing to know about me is that I'm a rule follower. The first thing to know about Christine is that she is NOT a rule follower. If there is a new path to get somewhere, that is clearly the path she will take. She would get sick on almost everything that she ate early on. I tried to be a good coach, but all I could see was the 20 grams of protein she was getting each day and the damage I felt she was doing to her health. One night we were lying in bed and we both just agreed that we were very frustrated. I was frustrated that she was not eating much of anything and not following the rules of the pouch. She was frustrated that I was not more supportive. I couldn't be supportive of the path she was taking. She had tried two protein drinks and decided that she couldn't drink any type of protein. I was so willing to get more flavors for her to try, but she would have none of it. Anyway, that night we talked for almost 2 hours and it really seemed to help. One of the things that we both concluded was that she needed to get more protein in. She was able to do it by adding more slider foods into her regular meals. She began eating NSA applesauce with all of her protein sources and things began to look up. Now she gets about 40-50 grams of protein a day. She is still far from the 70-80 that I was getting at that stage, but I'm just so happy that she seems to be putting more of an effort in to become a rule follower. She is getting her strength back and she even wants to go on walks in the evening. The more she walks the better she feels and the better she feels the more she wants to walk. I'm afraid that she will have major hair issues, but she has accepted the fact that her early low protein levels will take their toll on the hair.
On a more positive note, we did have a real vacation where we left the kids with my parents and we took off for 4 days on a getaway. We rented a nice motel room with a jaccuzi overlooking the Lake Michigan sunrises. What a great time we had. We have not gotten away like that in almost 15 years. We sipped coffee and shopped. We also stayed at a casino motel and they gave us $80 in tokens that we were able to turn into $33 in cash. That more than paid for our 3 main meals each day. We find that we can eat out anywhere for about $10-$13 (even includes a generous tip). It shocked us to see so many people pumping their hard-earned money into those machines. I guess if we had won big, maybe the bug would have bit us. For now, you can count us out of the group that loves to gamble.
Anyway, that is about all for now. I'm sorry that I didn't get a chance to check in. I've had a small gain of 5-7 pounds and I'm ready to get back on top of it. I'll keep you all updated a bit better in the future. Also, Christine has lots 40 pounds in the two month process. She thinks it should be dropping off faster, and I tell her that she has done very well.
Keep up the good work!!!
John (and Christine - the one who forbids me to "exploit her on OH" as she says...LOL)