at first we thought that it was low libido and then we thought it was decreased privacy... now we know that is the memory of pain and so that is why I cringe at the thought of intercourse. we have changed positions, and that doesn't help, we definitely have no problem with lubrication, so that is not the problem. it appears that there is just an irritated spot on my cervix that is the problem. great.. just when I get one plumbing situation fixed, the other plumbing springs a leak. heehee

that is why the dr is freaking out about the painful intercourse it is not the lube that is the problem it is just touching the cervix (even during the vag u/s) that is the problem.

Thanks everyone.....I did pretty good yesterday...kept myself out of the kitchen after work! Went for the roast and carrots for supper and had some popcorn and pork rinds (couple handfuls) for snack and went to bed!! have been keeping track on fitdday,too. Was down a couple pounds this morning...gonna keep going unIil I lose more and get back to at least where I was!! I would like to have a normal BMI too!!! Taking one day at a time!!

I thiink it's the nature of the beast that we go one hundred miles an hour and then crash and burn. I'm on day 9 of work and i feel the drain and the anger coming on. I want to take it out on msyelf through carbs but i'm not going to, i deserve better. I know we're going to the movies on Friday and i'm giong to have popcorn and that's going to be my cheat/treat for the week. I found carb control ice cream and i'm actually portioning it out i'm so proud of me not doing the eat until you're full thing. Be Well and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. As for the painful intercourse buy some tingly k-y jelly and go with that. ANDI

Happy birthday everybody ! So how are ya all celebrating this fabulous day ? I am having a tummy tuck on 5/13/08 and I'm nervous as heck ! Luv y'all !