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Topic: RE: can we do a what did you eat today?
Carla is doing a thread like this on the Grads board...but if you want to start one here too that is cool, I would participate.
Topic: can we do a what did you eat today?
Hi all -
I know we haven't been doing the "what did you eat today" postings for a while (or at least since I've been back), but it would be helpful to me to see if what I'm eating (on a good day) is normal, or at least in the range of normal?
I really need to see what the rest of you are eating, and how much. It will help me in my attempt to get back on track.
Thanks,
Heather
Topic: RE: i am so concerned
Hi Wendy -
I'm really glad that you posted this because I have been dealing with the same issues. For example, I am hooked on diet pepsi, and have gotten to the point of drinking 2 2-liters a day, in addition to the 64oz of water. I'm truly addicted to it. Is there a Diet Pepsi Anonymous somewhere? I'm currently trying to get off of it, but its hard. I think I'm using it to self-medicate to compensate for all the sedating medications I'm on. I'm scared I've stretched my pouch, and don't want to tell my surgeon the truth next week about how much I am drinking.
I'm not sure about how much we should or could be eating at this point either in terms of the size of my pouch. I find that at different times of the day, I can eat different amounts of food. My emotions also affect how much I can eat.
I can eat a half sandwich, depending on what is in it, and also depending on the time of day, my emotions, etc. I can eat a 1/2 peanut butter and jelly sandwich and 5 grapes for lunch. In the morning I can eat most of a South Beach Diet Meal Replacement Bar. Sometimes I can eat 1 doughnut, and others I can eat 2, but with difficulty. (I have not been eating good things this summer, doing a lot of emotional eating, so I'm not the best role model).
I am probably not a good example because I have regained weight because I have been emotionally eating most of this summer, but I would be interested in what others are eating. Maybe we can have a "what have you eaten today" posting again.
Take care,
Heather
Topic: RE: PMA's
Hi all -
This is hard for me as well, as I'm going through a rough time right now, but this exercise will help me feel better.
1) I went out yesterday and bought a couple of clothes (1 pair of jeans and 1 pair of cropped casual pants) that I can actually wear with my weight gain. I had been avoiding going into the outlet store and trying on clothes and finding out what size I am now at.
2) I am currently reorganizing the furniture in my studio apartment and decluttering since my sister is visiting me this weekend
3) For the last several days, I have restarted entering everything I eat into fitday.
4) Instead of driving, yesterday I walked to the pharmacy and back.
Have a good day everyone!
Heather
Topic: RE: i am so concerned
Well, you must not be eating too much otherwsie you would have gained. You must be eating enough to maintain - that's a positive so that when you reach goal you will have experience of what it is like
How much have you lost already - how much more til goal and is this your goal, your surgeons goal and do you think it is a realistic goal - it could be that you are at a reasonable weight for your body and don't need to lose more - you don't say.
And lastly, I have found that the more I eat, the more I can eat...and the less I eat, the less I can eat, if you understand??? So I dont' know about stretching and shrinking stomaches, but I do know how it feels and when I know I'm eating too much, a couple of days being strict with myself will readjust my stomach to only be able to eat less.
Hope that helps and don't stress so much!!! As you say, you've done it before, you know what to do, you just need to get back into the driving seat again. Keep posting here and you'll soon be seeing yourself back into routine again.
Ruth
Topic: i am so concerned
I am so afraid that I have stretched my pouch. I have been so bad about drinking and eating. I drink diet pepsi all day long. I am worried that I have done damage. I am not sure the amount of food that we should be eating now. I know that I should because, I used to be on top of this all. But, I am not anymore. I have not gained any weight but, I haven't lost in months. So everyone please let me know are you guys able to eat a hot dog on a piece of bread. Or a taco from taco bell. or a half a sandwich. I am flipping out.
Thanks for listening.
Wendy
Is it possible to shrink your stomach back.
Topic: RE: Emergency surgery Wed., a complication from WLS I never heard before...
I am glad that you knew enough to go in quickly and get this taken care of before it became life threatening for you. I worry about what to take seriously and what not to. Your experience shows that you really have to know your body.
Topic: RE: PMA's
Hey all.. this one can be tough but I am gonna sit her and try.
1. Bob has had a couple good days in a row and I have finally gotten Jo to understand better ways of handling him and his behavior.
2. Lalo played in his first scrimmage in football. after not tackling and running from the other boys, he finally got it and started playing. that made me happy
3. I finished the video of sign language I have been making. It has been frustrating me so much I have wanted to throw it across the room, but now I can sit back and know it's done.
4. I am slowly catching up on all the work I have and that is reducing a lot of my tension.
thats enough.. my head if tired now of thinging of things..lol...
Topic: Thought of the day...
We lift ourselves by our thought, we climb upon our vision of ourselves. If you want to enlarge your life, you must first enlarge your thought of it and of yourself. Hold the ideal of yourself as you long to be, always, everywhere - your ideal of what you long to attain - the ideal of health, efficiency, success.
Orison Swett Marden (1850 - 1924)