This is Mortifying

Hi Andi, We are close to 60....so that doesn't mean anything.,but our kids I think...think we don't do that kind of thing anymore!! We were like high school lids after losing our weight...but then came the grandkids...just like old times when raising our kids,trying to find time and the place...... Don't have much alone time now!! We have scared kids at night...so grandma sleeps with the grandaughter and Grandpa sleeps with the grandson!! How wrong is that?????? It reALLY DOES SUCK!!! bUT ITS STILL THERE FOR US....JUST CAN'T GET ANY!!! HEHEHE!!

OMG I could have written this. I do not know if it is chemical... hormonal... or what.. but I do not want to ... EVER. I do because I HAVE to.. but I sure do not want to. I went to the dr to find out why.. still waiting for test results and all I can say is. I had more sex drive when I was fat and sassy than I do no skinny and moppy.

Hi all, I am right there with all of you. I could care less if I had sex, unfortunately my husband doesn't feel the same way. If I give in once a week I feel he should be happy and then he thinks if he got it once, hell why not try for twice!! Ugh. It is so frustrating! Part of our problem is our schedules, I work nights he works days, and I sometimes work 5 nights a week, so on my 2 nights off, guess what, I want to sleep. What a novel idea, huh? Then we have kids aging from 21 down to 9, if we sneak away the older ones know what we are doing, plus they are up to all hours, leaving us "quiet time" at around 2am. Works for me but not for him. I have tried fantasizing about other men but that doesn't do much either. So I think all in all, we are in the same boat. Amy