I need support please

I know that i havent been on in a long time. I feel like a compelete failure. on surgery day i was 418 lbs - here i am 9 months later and 318lbs. i havent lost a single lbs in 3 months i tried the platu diet that didnt work i even work out. i dont know whats going on. i just moved to nv in dec so i cant go to my surgern cuz hes in ny. i feel like i can eat more than i should. i did the cottage cheese test and i can fit 1 cup and not feel uncomfortable. is anyone else going through this. im soooo depressed. thanks Jenia

Sorry that you are going through this - only thing I can offer is to contact your surgeon - and since you are able to eat more . . write down what you are consuming - everything (if you are not still doing it). Wish you well Phenom

I would contact the doctor as well.. you have lost 100 pounds and that is great.. are u counting your proteins and calories.. you should be getting about 900 to 1100 a day at most right now I would think.. eat proteins first.. everything else is last.. are u drinking.. taking our vitamins.. look at all of that..we have an on track board each day.. you should check it out.. post what you are doing and that will help you keep track and see what we are doing.. I personally avoid carbs.. except for those pesky pretzels i have for snack at night.. go back to the basics.. and see what happens.. good luck and check in more often.. we have a great group that can give you support in what ever you need... take care.

Hi Jenia! Where do you live now, if that's Nevada we'll be out there in May, want to meet us all? You are NOT a failure, Jenia is a WINNER! My body has taken a very long hiatus as well. Keep doing what you're doing, add more exercise, up the liquid intake (oh the joy in that) and fight the good fight, your body will learn who's going to win in the long range plan! There is no such thing as failure at this, some of us are slower to get to our destinations then others, does it suck to hear of people reaching goal and getting into tiny clothes before us, sure does, but our day will come. Have you ever done PMA's that stands for Positive Mental Attitude....each day at the end of the day you need to write down at LEAST (3) good things that have happened to you in the day. This will help us focus on all we've done right and it helps us let go of what we perceive as doing wrong! Hugs, ANDI