I'M SO ANGRY! :-@

Hi Deborah - I'm sorry you are having such a rough time, and I'm sorry for your loss. I can certainly understand why you are angry about many things. I've been feeling that way too lately - mainly angry at the difference in the way I'm treated by others compared to before surgery. I was the same person before. All I can say is maybe anger is an 8 month thing? Maybe there's a different emotion each month? Feel free to vent any time. Best wishes, Heather

I have no advice for you. but I am listening.

I understand completely My 24 yr old decided about that age to move out forget college and have a baby! She now understands why mom was right and is in school. I also hate that I had to have my guts rearranged to make me healthy and the whispers for my husband business associates and the wife's on what I "must have had done"... so you just vent away!!!!!!! You are not alone and we really do care PS my scale and weight go upp and down all the time and NEVER look at night.... always in the morning....

when i came into work this morning and saw all the things you all posted i was overwhelmed with emotion. i am so sad about losing the baby. and i feel so bad about him. all the symptoms i was having, i just thought it was the surgery. i was losing so much weight... i am trying to stop beating myself up. i thank you all. it's amazing that so many of you care about someone you haven't met. and that we are all bound by something like wls. my dr. keeps telling me to give myself time. that i will start feeling better. i have faith that i will and i actively do my best everyday to give everything that has happened over the last months to the Lord. Again, please know that i thank you all with all my heart. Sincerely, Deborah

I would probably be angrey to it sounds corny but life really is not fair and it sounds like you have experenced that. I am very sorry to hear about your son I cant begin to imagine how hard that was for you but I will say and I hope this helps and lends you some comfort. when things are bad try to remember that we all have are own crosses we bear and for each one of use they are undescribably hard and we all feeel no one can understand them but remember we all have something no matter how perfect or life may seem we ALL have something which torments us never ever think someone is perfect because that person is trying to be someone else that they think is perfect and the chain will countine. I hope this helps and I hope you feel better. Sometimes it just helps to vent through a fit whatever you want let that inner child out and through a temer tatrum if you want heck i think we all should every now and again