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Wowza, wowza! The incredible shrinking woman! Look how skinny your face & neck & arms are! Look at those long slender legs! Girl, I don't want to hear anymore of your griping.
A friend of mine told me when I switched from looking like "an overweight person who is losing weight" to a normal looking person, and it really meant a lot to me (even though I couldn't see it). Well, sister, you are there. You look normal. I hope that you don't take that the wrong way. It sounds funny now that I am reading it, but I've noticed people started treating me different since then...or maybe I am just showing more confidence now.
I am rambling again. Be proud of yourself beautiful. Try to see yourself the way all the rest of us see you...stunning!
Hugs,
Dar
Yes! I used to be INVISIBLE. Now, guys will wait for a long time to hold a door open for me. Not before, I could have been standing right behind them & they would have let that thing slap right in my face. WTHeck? That's not right!
I do feel a little awkward dealing with guys flirting with me now. Even while driving my minivan with the kids in there. Hee hee. I had my son shortly after we were married & have been barefoot & pregnant ever since (3 kids- each 4 years apart). So, this is all new to me. I totally adore my hubby, but it's kind of nice to have him on his toes a little more. He doesn't have a jealous bone in his body, but he likes that other guys think I'm hot now. He's like, "Yeah, that's my wife." The whole thing makes me feel uncomfortable. Inside I am just such a big dork and still feel like the chubby girl that they are just waiting to make fun of!
Anyhow, no wonder guys are giving you attention. You look like a freakin Barbie doll! (I think I am going to buy a long, thick, blond wig.)
Darlene
Yes, that's exactly what I was refering to. Simple things like guys making long eye contact, holding doors, flirting etc... at first I loved it - and now it's kind of almost hurtful. I work in a company full of men and why didn't they treat me like this 6 months ago, you know?
My husband - is just like yours. He dosen't have a jealous bone in his body and is more proud then anything. Sometimes that's nice but I'd like a bit of jealousy here and there too!! LOL
I can't wait to get down to your size. You're so damn hot babe!
Ha ha, I almost just peed my pants laughing. I know exactly what you mean about the jealous thing. A little bit would be nice. I mean, come on. Sometimes I even try to stir some up & he just laughs at me & says, "What are you doing?" I'll say things like, "I had a meeting with this really good looking doctor & it was just me & him in this little room..." He just laughs. He know better. First of all, he knows I am a Christian. Secondly, he knows I am ga ga over him.
However, if he told me about some good-looking girl at work, it would be "game-on"! I think I got the double portion of the green-eyed monster!
Dar