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Rejoicing 2B free
on 4/27/06 7:55 am - southern states
on 4/27/06 7:55 am - southern states
Hi Angie, If my surgeon had such a stringent food plan I would have strayed before you for sure.
Last Nov. I returned to Weigh****chers weekly for 2 reasons. 1. Accountability 2. Let someone else manage the weighing.
I was playing with the food and trying to manipulate the scales. (leaning forward, backward getting on and off 6 times and taking the lowest reading . If I did good on the scale I'd eat more cuz I 'deserved' it.
I realized I was going to be struggling with the food issues for the rest of my life and needed support plus education on what is healthy for me.
This wls has been a genuine gift but my head is still attatched and there is the problem. I have been learning that I can eat anything I want but just need to budget it in the days points. ( with the exception of foods that make me dump, some I have identified and some surprise me still ) I have learned to write everything down that crosses my lips and it is helping me a great deal. I learn great tips from the others there at mtgs. and the leader is a gifted motivator.
I used to wonder if I was a hypocrite going , with having the wls and all. But it is working for me and I feel I am growing in honesty and accountability w/food.
You will find your own niche. Keep exploring.
Great news that your labs were so good!
Best wishes,
Mary
Thanks to both of you! It's nice to hear that I'm not the only one finding my own way. I really have learned a lot about being accountable and also not giving up if I'm not 100% successful everyday.
I, too, give myself breaks when the scale goes down -- and you'd think I would learn that when I give myself that break, the scale goes right back up again! Duh!
Thanks again! Angie
Angie,
If they could have only fixed our brains not to want food anymore! I've never quite eaten the small amounts that were prescribed. I do eat pretty healthy, but, I have to put everything in fitday or I still get too many calories (well, I get too many putting them in fitday as well, but, at least I'm accountable!)
This will be a lifelong challenge for us, I'm afraid.
Lori