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Sue... that is awful.... I hope you now have the strength to leave someone who would say that!!! Nail his a$$ to the wall in court (if that is what you have the opportunity to do). You deserve WAY better than that hun!!! From now on only respectful and worthy men!!!

Here's a better Line.... Turns out my weight problem was allergy induced... I was allergic to A$$H0LE$...... Kate Z

LOL, I like that one............. Don't worry, I did leave him 11 years ago. I have him in court for failure to pay his child support for our 12 year old daughter. I've been married to a a real sweetheart of a guy for 9 years now. In fact, when I went in to have this surgery, he told me "I love you just the way you are, but I'll support you in this decision." What a guy!

Thanks Sue, My ex has failed to pay child support as well, I look forward to our day in court!

You know you're going to be going in there looking good!! (don't even get me started on deadbeats not paying their child support)

Girl, We would need a whole new forum

Child support? What's that??? You mean men are actually supposed to PAY for their children???? I'll be darned. For nearly 10 years, mine has been the only income. Not a single penny has come from my ex...oh, and might I add, my son is almost 10 years old. YOU do the math. Then again, I haven't seen hide nor hair from the man for 7 years, which is a much bigger blessing than a few dollars a month would ever be. Sigh....at least I look good! LOL! Gina

Gina, hilarious...and you look GREAT!

My ex-husband once told me "I cannot stand looking at you. Why do you think I look at other women? I thought maybe you'd get the hint." I had gained about 30-40 lbs during the unhappy marriage. Anyway, I planned my getaway from that day on. LOL! It took a few months but I did it. He came looking for affection one day "Do you want to play with my stiffy?" is the direct quote. I told him "No, why would I do that. You cannot stand looking at me, right?" He somewhat denied what he had said to me but believe you me...it is etched in my mind forever. I ended up meeting my now husband while separated from the a**. He is the sweetest kindest man I've ever met and sometimes I wonder what I did right to deserve him. But I do deserve him! He was a big man when I met him but I fell in love with the person not the weight. It ended up he needed the surgery for health issues and is now a "perfect" weight for his height or so I think. Kathy

Kathy, "Do you want to play with my stiffy?" I needed that this Friday morning...So happy you have the real deal with Rich!