Please tell me how wrong this is!

Hello everyone- I just got done talking to a friend, and she had the nerve to tell me I'm jealous of her!! It really hurt my feelings and was just wrong! She says I'm immature and always starting crap (she didn't use that word). She said I'm jealous of her because she has friends! Oh my gosh! I do too! She USE TO BE ONE OF THEM! Also I'm supposed JEALOUS OF HER SO MUCH I WANNA BE HER! BECAUSE SHE IS THIN!!! 135 LBS. It hurt me so bad she'd even say that! This is the first time I've ever had to let some steam out on here. Is it just me or was she so wrong for doing that? And I didn't start stuff just for the record! LOL! I'm 21 yrs old and married and attend college. I don't have time for crap like that. Had to drop a friend because of her being too needy and wanted me to leave my hubby! So I could spend more time w/her. I have bad taste on picking friends! ~April~ LAP RNY May 13, 2005 21 yrs old, 5'1 231 / 197 / 120

Hey April! Sorry to hear about you friend....sounds like she jealous of the NEW YOU....she's scared that you will give her competition...but don't worry...YOU ROCK...I'll be your friend.

Thanks! I have just too much on my mind like losing weight and college and marriage...I accept all friends...hows your weight loss going? I'm having a time w/protein shakes

Honey...I know excatly what you mean...I'm married, and will be starting back to school in Aug. and WILL NOT have time for the DRAMA. My weigh loss is SLOW....I go to the doc tomorrow, so I will see how much more I have I have loss. What protein shakes are you taking? I LOVE the NECTAR protein..taste just like juice.

Glucerna or something like that. NASTY! what kinda juice? LOL and were do u get it?

Hi! I just wanted to comment that the glucerna is disgusting. Try the atkins shakes, they were tolerable for me for a while. Now I'm getting my protein in through yogurt and milk. Some soft chicken too. I've got to hunt down the juice stuff.... why can't someone put protein in a capsule???

Amen to that! A capsule or liquid. That isn't nasty! I will try the atkins. Any advice on which flavor?

I started with the chocolate and vanilla. Now mind you... make sure you keep it cold, then pour it over ice AND I had to let the ice melt some and drink it from a straw! LOL Its kind of thick for me and THE POUCH has taken over my sense of smell! I then couldn't wait to try the strawberry, I get burnt out fast. But... the strawberry left a powerful after taste in my mouth. Might not be the same for you. Good Luck sweetie!!

I'll drop you an e-mail...

I have to concur: it DOES sound like she's feeling threatened by you. Perhaps her own insecurities are creepign out. I know that for alot of my friends, I was the steady 'fat friend' that they could always turn to for an ego boost. As I lose weight, their ego is feeling less boosted and they tend to get snippy. I've learned that those are NOT my friends. My friends are the ones that excitedly come up to me each week and ask, "How much have you lost now?!?" then jump up and down with joy for my evolution. My friends are the ones that have made plans for trips to Disneyland and Magic Mountain 6 months out because they know I'll be able to fit in the rides then. I guess what I'm trying to say is that real friends don't treat you the way this girl did. Time to find a new one!! Rough, but true. Blessings, Gina