Yelling!

What is up with that???? I thought this is a place for support? I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but if you're going to "yell" or "scold" keep your posts to yourselves please...... I was reading a couple of posts for Brandi- when she was voicing her consern about finding out she was pregnant DURING surgery and I was horrified to learn that people were actually yelling at her and telling her she should have waited! NO KIDDING! Do you honestly think anyone in their right mind would go through this surgery when they KNEW they were pregnant?! Brandi if you're reading this..... Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and don't let ANYONE get you down on yourself! Good luck and God bless! Keep us posted! Angie Lap RNY 5/23/05 305/270/?????

Angela I just had to go back and read all the posts. I couldn't believe anyone would be rude to Brandi about this topic. I didn't find any comments offensive or rude and I doubt Brandi did either. I think you may have been reading into the posts a little to deeply. Jen

I too read the posts and I didn't see any yelling either. What I did see was an awful lot of prayers being said for Brandi and her pregnancy and I saw alot of support. Kathy

Same here, but I did see a post from Brandi saying she had gotten some private emails that were less than supportive...

Arghhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!! Kathy

Does anyone know how she is doing?

Vicky, Sorry to upset you, but this is the part I was referring too....I did not realize that they were personal emails........but still, "For those telling me I should have waited, can I just say this... DUH!!!! And I wasn't planning to go into surgery already pregnant, this was an OOPS baby, k? BIG OOPS. But it's here, and it's mine."

Wow! I just came across this post. I didn't mean to cause an uproar. I must admit I was slightly offended at being told I should have waited a year, even though it would have been hard. Because that person clearly didn't get that this wasn't planned. I didn't even think I could get pregnant! I did get quite a few upsetting emails though. I am doing good, but I am very worried about my morning sickness, I am eating even less that I did 3 weeks ago! I have to force myself to eat, but so little sounds good and if it doesn't sound good or feel good, then up it comes..bleck. I spoke with my OB over the phone and she prescribed some meds, but they aren't helping, but she did say the most important thing is to stay hydrated. So that is what I am trying. I go back to work on Monday and am soo scared I won't be able to make it through the whole day. Thank you all for the support, and sticking up for me....it's very appreciated..... Brandi