OMG I'M A CRY BABY,HELP

WELL I FINALLY MADE IT I'M ON THE LOSING SIDE.THANK YOU EVERYONE FOR ALL YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT, MOST OF ALL PRAYERS AND MY FAMILY.I HAVE HAD A REALLY HARD TIME IT'S BEEN JUST ABOUT NONSTOP CRYING AND MY HUSBAND IS TIRED OF IT ALREADY AND HAS WARNED ME HE IS JUST ABOUT OUT THE DOOR,WELL I LOST IT AGAIN AND BOY AND GET EVEN MORE MADDER AND WALKED AWAY.TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH I HAVE BEEN ON 2 DEPRESSION PILLS AND 2 HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE PILLS AND PREVACID,TOPROL,LIPITOR AND I HAVE NOT TAKEN ANY OF THESE SINCE MAY 31ST. AND I ALSO HAVE BEEN WANTING A CIG SO BAD ESPECIALLY WHEN I GET UPSET.I AM SO EMOTIONAL THAT I AM MAKING MYSELF SICK AND WANTING TO GIVE UP,MAN IF I JUST HAD A CIG.LOL JUST THINKING OUT LOUD.BEING UPSET IS REALLY GETTING TO ME AND I HATE BEING THIS WAY FOR I DON'T WANT TO GIVE UP ON MYSELF I'VE ALREADY WENT FUTHER THEN I EVER THOUGH AND I DON'T REGRET MY DECISION SO NOW I JUST GOT TO RIDE THIS THROUGH BUT IT'S HELL AND I MIGHT EVEN LOSE A HUSBAND OUT OF IT,AND I DON'T WANT THAT.I CALLED MY DAUGHTER AND SHE TALKED ALONG TIME WITH ME AND I WOULD BE SO LOST WITHOUT HER SHE'S MY ANGEL AND I LOVE HER WITH ALL MY HEART.SHE FINALLY GOT ME SETTLED DOWN AND NOW I'M CRYING AGAIN LOL BUT IT'S A GOOD CRY WHEN I SPEAK OF MY DAUGHTER AND MY HUSBAND I GET ALL CHOKED UP,I GUESS IT REALLY LET'S YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE MY FAMILY AND YES I ALSO HAVE A SON TOO WE ARE CLOSE BUT NOT AS MY DAUGHTER AND I.BOY DO MY SON AND I TALK ALOT TOO LOL.WELL I HAVE CRUSHED UP 2 ZOLOFT WISH ME LUCK FOR I TRULY NEED IT. SO ANY ADVICE IS SURELY WELCOMED.MY SURGERY WAS MAY 31ST AND TODAY IS JUNE 5TH.LOVE YA ALL BONNIE

Yes, fur sure crush and take your meds! I was a bawling mess for almost a week before my antidepressants got back into my system and I am more leveled off now. You aren't a cry baby. Your body is going thru massive changes. Hormones are all over the place, especially if you were on meds and had stopped them. Try to get some rest and take it easy. You're gonna be up in the air for a little bit, and I am sure your husband understands this. It might be frustrating to him, but he needs to understand you can't help it. You're trying. Take care!

Oh, poor dear! I completely understand, and wish you nothing but joy. Please explain to your husband that this surgery not only restricts portions, but it causes malabsorption, so your meds aren't reaching your system the way they should. Let him know that several of us who've been there can attest that it WILL get better; all he has to to is hang in there. Every time I get blue now, I picture myself thin and wearign a cute outfit while doing something fun and exciting (amusement park ride, etc.). Maybe that will work for you? Blessings, Gina

Dear Bonnie, Your tears are washing away the toxins stored in your old fat cells! Think about that.....they are wonderful! They are like the rain that washes away the road dust and refreshes the plants, animals, earth and us! Don't fight your emotions, don't be afraid of them.....tears never hurt anyone...and as your calendar moves further and further away from your surgery date you will feel better and better about YOU, your health, your family and husband, your life and future......this is a wonderful journey and as my mentor said.....if you don't get your body, mind, spirit and family over the finish line all together then you haven't won! She recommended I seek therapy just to have a neutral third party to ventilate my changing feelings and emotions with....I start this Friday with a therapist. Excercise too will help to increase oxygen to your spirit and body and cleanse you of the toxic lifestyle you once lived.......you have a wonderful life ahead of you to be lived! Share your excitement for your future with your family and husband.........accentuate the positive! God Bless! Sally 5/24/05 318/270/48! Whoopie!

I went through the sobbies, too. I think it's normal!! Tell hubby to just hold out for another few days and it will all go away!! BIG HUGS!! Michelle