sick of questions not being answered accurately

on main board, and Q and A board, some people are just so quick to preach and or accuse, and in doing so they lose sight of the poor persons question, and fail to give an answer. Not fair. It doesnt happen often, but I've seen it twice today. Thanks for letting me vent!

Aliya that's why I have pretty much narrowed my focus to the May board. I guess everyone is looking to be HEARD and on the main board sometimes people get on the soapbox and it can become pretty ugly and yes, the dear one who asked the question gets lost in the sauce and left feeling ignored, invalidated - if not violated... while the hot air tunnel spews on. Like to think it isn't really a conscious choice to be that way. I know personally I can catch myself holding a 'captive audience' sometimes and when I become aware stop ....to realize I have indulged myself , at another's expense. Which isn't fair or honorable at all and certainly not { mutually} satisfying. If we don't vent with safe people we WILL eat over it . Bless ya for caring so deeply, Mary

Don't even get me started on the main board. I do post there but in very limited fashion. I get very frustrated at some of the questions let alone some of the answers. I'll refrain from giving examples. Kathy

I visit the post-op pregnancy board often, and it's pretty good, but sometimes there is drama. I never visit the main board. I was just thinking the other day that it is great the May board is open and willing to listen. I don't think I've ever seen drama here. I love it! Angie