Fun *wow* moments..........
Over a year out and still having *wow* moments..............
Had to appear in court June 14th for child support against my 13 year old daughter's father. This is the guy who verbally/emotionally abused me and continues to do it every chance he gets. His favorite words were "fat a** b*tch". Well, since my surgery that has stopped.
Last time he seen me was in October 2005 for another court appearance, he hasn't seen me since.
I cut my hair short; I always dress nice for court, so I had my dress clothes on and did my hair up nice.
I was standing in the courthouse hallway waiting for my attorney when he came out of the elevators. I was waiting for him to make some smarta** comments, but to my surprise, he walked right past me! I went in the court room and sat down near the front to wait for my attorney. He came in the room and sat behind me, he's still looking around for me and I'm sitting 3 rows in front of him.
My lawyer finally shows up and when he see her talking to me, it finally dawns on him who I am! 
I ended up dropping my petition for child support. After 3 years of battling him and dealing with a court system that won't throw this deadbeat in jail where he belongs, I just quit.
Then, to add insult to injury, on the way out of the court house, he wants to talk to me. He asked me if my hubby and I were having problems and if that was the reason I dropped my petition. When I asked him why he would think that, he said he noticed that I didn't have my rings on.(they don't fit anymore, they're way too big). I just walked off, what a piece of work!
I ended up dropping my petition for child support. After 3 years of battling him and dealing with a court system that won't throw this deadbeat in jail where he belongs, I just quit.
Then, to add insult to injury, on the way out of the court house, he wants to talk to me. He asked me if my hubby and I were having problems and if that was the reason I dropped my petition. When I asked him why he would think that, he said he noticed that I didn't have my rings on.(they don't fit anymore, they're way too big). I just walked off, what a piece of work! 
What a sm*ck.
Nice to see that he didn't recognize you. That must have been fun. Alot of fun.
I see my ex-husband every few weeks when we exchange the dog. Shared custody. 
Anyway, a while after my surgery he says "I guess that worked, eh?" Duh!
I may have now lost 116.5 lbs but the best weight I ever lost was the 230 lbs when I divorced him. 
Kathy
Anyway, a while after my surgery he says "I guess that worked, eh?" Duh!
I may have now lost 116.5 lbs but the best weight I ever lost was the 230 lbs when I divorced him.
Kathy 
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on 7/14/06 12:46 am - southern states
on 7/14/06 12:46 am - southern states
Hi Sue, Thanks for dropping in and sharing your WOW moment ! Very cool to not be recognized by the { Enemy} ! 
Sorry about the petition ...guess I just have a will to seeing deadbeat dads pay their due. Sometimes the courts don't do their job in pressing them into parental responsibility, Sad. I pray he will feel personally compelled to do his duty. May he develope a sense of honor to do the right thing by his kid/kids.
Be encouraged, It is so good to hear from you. 
Mary
Sorry about the petition ...guess I just have a will to seeing deadbeat dads pay their due. Sometimes the courts don't do their job in pressing them into parental responsibility, Sad. I pray he will feel personally compelled to do his duty. May he develope a sense of honor to do the right thing by his kid/kids.
Be encouraged, It is so good to hear from you.
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