1 Year Labs...

I can definately say it's not for lack of trying ... our sex life has gone into overdrive, but it's been really frustrating for both of us.... After all the issues we've been through this past year, and almost losing my marriage, sex was one thing among many that we agreed to make a concerted effort on, one of the ingredients of a healthy marriage and all that. That's all fine and good, but when the "O" isn't there, consistently, every time, no matter what, it tends to stress us out a little bit...

Hi Becky Sue, our bestest ' pre-med student' Kathy, is great at the test analysis so when she signs on I'll bet she can explain so clearly. Your doc will be a great help also in helping you understand and discern what they mean. Hope things start looking up for you hormonally. That can be a real problem. You have lost so much weight and look so wonderful. All the rapid changes can have an effect on the whole person, body mind and spirit. Sometimes it takes some time to catch up and flow together. ( sort of like the scale..it bobs around and some days it's 'friend' and { it's all GOOD } some days it bobs around and it stinks , making us feel discouraged and less than good about ourselves Best wishes and God bless you, Mary

Thanks so much, Mary... You're right, it's definately a frame of mind thing, some days, it's nada, some days it's, well, it's like today... lol I think I must be taking after Kathy, I've spent hours pouring over my labs and researching the meaning... That and the hormone issues, as well... I just don't like not knowing what's going on, I guess I'm somewhat of a control freak... It's definately been a crazy year - a lot, and I mean, A LOT, of whole-sale changes in my life. But all for the good and not a single regret! Have a great evening!

You say control freak like it's a bad thing. When it comes to your health - it is so very important that you do. If you haven't seen it... www.labtestsonline.org is excellent. Kathy

Yup, that's one of the first ones I found - awesome sight!

Are you on any other medications? I know I was on an anti-depressant for a while (don't remember which one), but it made the "O" non-existant, too. It was incredibly frustrating!! Michelle