Be careful....

I am not ready to talk about it yet but I was assaulted Friday night. I just wanted to say to you girls.... Hmmm, I don't know. we have been used to our weight being a protective cocoon around us that kept us from certain unwanted attention. Don't be naive and trust too easily. We are not viewed by the world the same and it makes us targets for some undesirables. Trust me, a rape kit is not a fun test. Please use good judgement and do not make decisions based on how things used to be for us. With new looks comes new confidence and willingness to try new things. Also comes danger. Attention, sometimes unwanted. Sometimes wanted, but not to that extent. Sometimes people will take the great pride that you feel in your new look as an invitation. And they will leave you under a bridge alone half naked and hurt. And wondering where you went wrong. I am lucky to see my children this night and kiss them goodnight. Really lucky. Don't learn this lesson the hard way.

Hey Sweetie...hang in there. Not too much someone can say, that will help, or take the pain away. I will be praying for you. Jeannie

Bless you heart! Your in my prayers also. (((HUGS)))

I am so sorry that something bad happened to you!!! My heart goes out. I know what you are talking about!! Trust me. When I was 14 I was raped, and it isn't an easy situation to deal with. Try to find someone, a therapist if possible, to talk with. It does help and it will get better. Tricia

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Teri

Oh Monica how awful. My prayers are with you. Penny

I am SO sorry...you are in my prayers and thought!! HUGS!!!! Julie S.

Iam so sorry you were hurt,you are in my prayers. Maggie

My heart goes out to you!!!!!!!! I will pray for you to get through this horrible tragedy. I know what you mean about getting unwanted attention. Hang in there and get help to deal with this. ((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))) Christine

I AM SO SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU OR ANYONE..... I WILL PRAY FOR YOU.KEEP YOUR HEAD HIGH,TALK TO GOD,HE WILL HELP YOU THRU THIS.....BARBARA