Was it really worth it?

I just wanted to tell my bestfriend Chad Dupree of Peebles, OH that we loved him just the way he was. He unwent the surgery the end of May and was so happy. He was dropping the weight and felt this was the best decision of is life. Honestly, I've never seen him happier. Due to complications, Chad died August 27, 2004 he was 27 years old. I'm not writing this to discourage anyone from undergoing there own surgeries. I just wanted to let everyone know that the people that matter most to you love you just the way you are. Society is so cruel and can make an over-weight person feel dirty an unexcepted. Fight to change peoples hearts and minds because it is who you are on the inside that truly matters most. And Chad Dupree was the most wonderful and sweet human being that I've ever met. He's finally at peace. I pray that no one reading this ever has to experience the pain and ridicule that Chad had to all of his life. Good luck in your own search for peace and acceptance within yourselves. And Chad, if you're listening... I love you.

Arlene I am so sad for you in your loss. For the marjority of people who decide to have this surgery it is not about other people. It is about feeling good about yourself and being able to be who you really are. Chad knew the risk he was taking and I am so proud of him. He died doing what it would take to save his life. Every pound that he shed will show someone that you really can do it. You loved Chad as he was but he had to love who Chad was. Reading your post makes me know that I have to succeed and make it to goal for the ones who lost their lives on the journey. I dedicate my journey to Chad every success I'll remember him because he paid the ultimate sacrifice to be able to love himself. This is a journey of hope and discovery. Rejoice in every moment that Chad found in his success I know that he would do it again because of no matter what I have been through this has been the sweetest journey. Be Blessed and I am praying for you and for Chad to have a gentle journey to the other side.

Arlene, I think to Chad it was worth it. You said he was happier than before. I am very sorry for your and the rest of his friends loss. You all will be in my prayers. I am sure when Chad was alive he loved you too! With tears in my eyes, Michele

To me it was! For Chad I am sure it was as well. My prayers and thoughts are with you and his family as they heal and learn to live with him looking on from Heaven. God's peace to everyone. -Gerriann

Arlene, I'm very sad for you and Chad's family...I know that the worse that could happen has for Chad. Please accept my prayers for peace of mind and heart. Thank you for sharing this information with us, I know it must be very painful for you. Most sincerely, Michelle

i just read his profile. what a tragedy that something went wrong. you have my deepest sympathies...................... gail