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Topic: RE: Has it been 6 days since surgery
I am so glad to hear from you. Your positive post have been missed. Keep taking it slow and we will be happy to hear more from you when you have the energy
Topic: Checking in
Ok I had my surgery on the 6th and spent a week in a hotel in Maryland before coming home. Once my drain was removed last Monday I drove hubby and I home(I have real anxiety issues about others driving me). Overall I have felt great but I suspect I may have over done it just a tad yesterday because I went from no pain to a minor pain on my upper left side. I had an implant removed from that area and I probably pulled something. I did do research last night to be sure nothing else was going on and with no other symptoms other than minor pain I feel it is all ok. I am down 20 lbs since surgery and find eating entertaining. I am on pureed foods which have consisted of things like refried beans to filet mignon. Yesterday for lunch I bought a small filet at the grocery store and brought it home to grill. Weighed out 2 ounces and tossed it into the Magic Bullet. On top of my pureed filet I placed a teaspoon of crumbled blue cheese. It was very tasty and I ate all of it. OMG I felt like I had just eaten dinner plus desert. I am amazed at how little it takes to make me feel so full.
Topic: Has it been 6 days since surgery
Hi friends,
I am home and recovering. I am having to work at this harder than I thought but I am taking my time so my recovery is without complications. I updated my blog because so many of you were so kind to write me PM's asking how I am. I don't have energy yet to reply but I will soon. I am excited about the future and I can't wait to put on real clothes.
Diana
I am home and recovering. I am having to work at this harder than I thought but I am taking my time so my recovery is without complications. I updated my blog because so many of you were so kind to write me PM's asking how I am. I don't have energy yet to reply but I will soon. I am excited about the future and I can't wait to put on real clothes.
Diana
Topic: RE: Good morning !
Enjoy your weekend...
I was in and out of the hospital so fast, only a couple people were able to stop by, which was better. I wasn't really very chatty the night of surgery, and the following night I went home. Had some people stop by the next weekend; and I was up and moving by then.
I live in San Francisco area so I know what you mean by the blue sky's...That is why I live here.
Happiness..... kathy
I was in and out of the hospital so fast, only a couple people were able to stop by, which was better. I wasn't really very chatty the night of surgery, and the following night I went home. Had some people stop by the next weekend; and I was up and moving by then.
I live in San Francisco area so I know what you mean by the blue sky's...That is why I live here.
Happiness..... kathy
Topic: RE: Good morning !
Hope you have a really good weekend I am 9days after you on Surgery I am getting excited,I am ready for this new life starting.Good Luck on your Surgery...
Topic: Good morning !
Kim
HW 315 /CW 152/ GW 148
Good morning to all us April surgery folks... what's everybody doing this weekend?
I have a relaxing day today, probably doing something like a movie or outing with my DH. I hope to keep it very low key. Will probably start doing some packing for the hospital, although routinely I am a last minute packer.
I have booked an hour long massage on Sunday, hoping this will help my shoulder muscles relax a little bit. I'm not nervous for surgery on Tuesday, just a little apprehensive. I have alot of work friends who want to visit me in the hospital and I'm holding them back by telling them I'll text them if / when I'm ready for visitors.
I know people mean well, but really, if I'm nauseous, how many people do I want to chat with?
Enjoy the weekend, hoping for some blue sky in the Pacific Northwest !
I have a relaxing day today, probably doing something like a movie or outing with my DH. I hope to keep it very low key. Will probably start doing some packing for the hospital, although routinely I am a last minute packer.
I have booked an hour long massage on Sunday, hoping this will help my shoulder muscles relax a little bit. I'm not nervous for surgery on Tuesday, just a little apprehensive. I have alot of work friends who want to visit me in the hospital and I'm holding them back by telling them I'll text them if / when I'm ready for visitors.
I know people mean well, but really, if I'm nauseous, how many people do I want to chat with?
Enjoy the weekend, hoping for some blue sky in the Pacific Northwest !
Kim
HW 315 /CW 152/ GW 148
Topic: RE: Dad telling everyone he meets :(
Thanks for this post about being lucky to have a supportive dad. It was a very good reminder to me!
I too had this issue come up yesterday when I found out that my dad (who still lives in the town I grew up in, although I do not) had seen one of my teachers from high school and felt the need to share the details with him...really??? my mom said that he is telling everyone else I am having "elective surgery" which I think is hilarious. I can only imagine that there would be a lot of different ideas about what that would be and how the small town rumor mill must be turning.
I am very open with people in my present about what I'm doing but for whatever reason I don't feel comfortable sharing it with people from the past. But too late :)
The other thing that I have to remind myself is that my dad needs support too in this and he gets a lot of support by talking to other people. If he can't share it with people then I guess I'm denying him what he needs in a way, so I'm trying to be understanding. But, it is a little aggravating :)
I too had this issue come up yesterday when I found out that my dad (who still lives in the town I grew up in, although I do not) had seen one of my teachers from high school and felt the need to share the details with him...really??? my mom said that he is telling everyone else I am having "elective surgery" which I think is hilarious. I can only imagine that there would be a lot of different ideas about what that would be and how the small town rumor mill must be turning.
I am very open with people in my present about what I'm doing but for whatever reason I don't feel comfortable sharing it with people from the past. But too late :)
The other thing that I have to remind myself is that my dad needs support too in this and he gets a lot of support by talking to other people. If he can't share it with people then I guess I'm denying him what he needs in a way, so I'm trying to be understanding. But, it is a little aggravating :)
Topic: RE: Home at Last!!
Awww, thanks TeeMarie! I like reading stuff candid. I didn't have any bad experiences other than the nausea, which is directly related to the anesthesia, and the dreaded hiccups!!
I did spit up twice, darker blood in there from the actual surgery. But that came and went.
If anyone has other questions, please feel free to ask me! I will be as open as I can =)
This is my 4th surgery. 2 c-sections and my gallbladder out laparoscopically. So I went into surgery pretty much knowing how I'd feel once out of recovery. I know there are a lot of people on here who have never had a single surgery at all!
So I reiterate my offer - ask anything you want =) If not on this post, then PM me =)
I did spit up twice, darker blood in there from the actual surgery. But that came and went.
If anyone has other questions, please feel free to ask me! I will be as open as I can =)
This is my 4th surgery. 2 c-sections and my gallbladder out laparoscopically. So I went into surgery pretty much knowing how I'd feel once out of recovery. I know there are a lot of people on here who have never had a single surgery at all!
So I reiterate my offer - ask anything you want =) If not on this post, then PM me =)
Topic: RE: surgery in 5 days and i feel unprepared!
we are definitly feeling the same things then! i have those fears, too. it's good to know i am not alone in these feelings. i was worried that maybe i was getting cold feet or something. but i see that being scared is normal. i get more nervous the closer it gets. i'm afraid i'm going to freak out and have a panic attack when it's time to go to the hospital.