Newbie with a Monday surgery date
I'm brand new to this message board, but I thought it would be a great way to start my weight loss journey. As most, I've been fighting this beast for most of my adult life. I'm having difficulty with husband support because he doesn't think I'm "big" enough. My BMI is 40.7, I have yo-yo'd for years, I can't do the things I used to do b/c of joint pain and ankle swelling, and I'm just sick of it! I remember last year going to a weight loss clinic saying, "well at least I don't qualify for the lap band!" WOW!! I am a physician, so I knew some things, and I have been researching for months, so when I had my first appointment, I had already looked at multiple seminars, been all over the web, and pretty much decided this is what I needed to do to. I'm now infuriated at how ignorant people can be. They think I'm being lazy and taking the "short cut". This is nothing close to a short cut. It will take lots of work, consistency, and dedication. I'm so excited, but also soooo nervous. I want everything to go well. I thought being a part of this board would help me in this journey, because the people I am around pretty much don't know. I don't feel completely alone, but I feel this support group will supply me with that extra umph I need to combat ignorant people. Isn't it weird how we are judged for being big, but when we try to do something about it, we are chastised for it too? I'm sick of worrying about what others think when I know what is normal for me. Sorry, getting a little worked up! Anyway, "HELLO" everyone, and I look forward to reading your posts and answers. Wish me luck!
i think youll do fine my bmi was 41 and when my dr had me lose 10% of my body weight i was at about 38 bmi so . i had my rny on monday and im doing much better today than say wednesday. but i think its awsome that your a dr. and doing this think of all the insite you could give so many people on this incredible journey. good luck to you youll be fine and its not a short cu already this is the hardest thing ive ever done
My surgery is Monday too. Welcome to OH...the people here are great. I've been "lurking" for a while and have just now started really commenting on things. I just read and soaked up the information during the past 10 months......These people are a wealth of information and always ready to support you and raise your spirits. Good luck on Monday. Cyndi
I'm new to this too. Had my RNY on 4/22 and today is my 1st post-op visit. I too had the feeling and was told by some that I wasn't big enough for this! I'm about 40 BMI too. I say that only the person themselves knows how they feel and what they can and can't do physically. Go with your heart and gut and with what your medical professionals say and forget about the sabotagers and/or those who love you too much and loose perspective. Generally most well thought out people know what's best for them. Good luck and wishing you improved health on your journey!
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