I was where u are now and trust me you do not want to go down this alley as it is very very dangerious. Harmless flirting becomes a addiction and before u know it u crash and burn ,,, I will never think the worst Trust me I will NEVER judge anyone my friends walk from all walks of life from a devoted christian to a escort. I really GET THEM .. I am not about judging people and who is better no one is all that and a bag of chips. they still need 'sour" cream for those chips Lisa

This is for you shakeria http://www.kissfunny.com/view_funny.asp?id=1242 you will get here and I will be here Lisa

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!!!!! You did it! Through trial and tribulation, through rought times and good, you persevered, and you succeeded!!!!! Congratulations! Now I'll do the virtual happy dance for you: Marcia

Sorry for the confusion but my hubby is not a FBi profiler he is aerospace engr and works on missle defence program but I met a wonderful friend that is FBI profiler (wish I was his wife LOL hehe ) Humor is what is getting me threw this diffacult time and u know revealing I was a person that has MPD/DID is very libererating and actually very healing for me, I think for so long I thought I was a freak of nature but reality is alot of DID people are highly functional and we usually do not go on sybil mode on people LOL. YES TRUE MPD is rare and when I was told how bad I had it it was like I was a failure and then hubby took therpy to learn to cope and the ones he went to had probally never met a true MPD. He was told I was to far gone and if he wanted a normal life and a normal wife it was never gonna be me. When I met my friend he said we all basically have MPD to some degree we have the role as a mother or role of a mistress/wife role of professional etc like we switch hats and I just reallly switch really well. I guess. I am still me just unique and different and never boring LOL I will write u privately later we are not crazy we are just uniquely different and my true friends tell me I am just really colorful and would not trade me in for a boring friend Lisa

Lisa As a future mental health care provider I am outraged that someone would tell your husband that you arent worth the effort! THat is the biggest bull. Everyone does have DID to some extent. Its how people deal with things to a certain extent. You having it full blown just means that you now have to recognize that you are this way, and you can make adjustments accordingly. I am in no way a expert yet but I know that much. As far as MPD goes, I feel honored to have met you in that field because true MPD is rare. AS for hubby being a FBI profiler I am so excited to meet someone who knows someone with this career. How freaking amazing is that??? Your husband knows that you are worth everything if he is as smart as his career would lead me to believe. You can do this, just think of your MPD as some extra driving force. (I shouldnt make light of the situation just trying to put a positive spin on it) Seriously Lisa everyday is a new day, and a new beginning and you know that for yourself. LOok at your accomplishments!! I am honored to be fighting this battle with you, and all the others. Here is my personal email address... [email protected] I have a work email address that I will give out if someone wants it. Hugs ladies Amanda