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Topic: RE: Sunday weigh in
Hey Shar and the A-Team!
I want to say that last night I accomplished one of the biggest goals of my life pre and post RNY - I took a swing dance class. In Public. And no one whispered about that huge fat girl dancing. As a matter of fact, I wasn't even the biggest normal sized person in the room. It was AMAZING!! And fun and sweaty, woohooo!! We're taking another in 2 weeks then I think some weekly private lessons. I have wanted to do this for years and years but never had the confidence. thank you RNY.
As for weight:
Highest 322
DOS 308
Last week 188
This week 188
holding firm at 134 pounds down and a size 12/14.
Have a great week everyone!
Inky
Topic: RE: Is this a stage thing or just me???
Hi Stephanie,
I do think it's all part of the process. We have worked SO hard the past 15 months and even though we have learned new habits, we have a lifetime of old ones to work on.
The thing is - why do we graze, what are we trying to satisfy. I find that if I ask myself these things first then i am prone to not do it. am i hungry? no, then why eat, what do i want that is telling me i should reach for food. where is something lacking, am i bored, tired, mad, stressed, sad? usually for me i'm bored or upset, so i say to myself ok, go do something to keep yourself busy for 30minutes and THEN if you still think you are hungry, have a protein.
Of course there is that one bad pms day and now that i track my period, i know when it's coming and on that day i take my regular meal food and just eat it all day long, so it's the same calories just with different timing, otherwise that day is just horrible for me. it seems to work pretty well and i "think" i'm eating all day long/too much but I'm eating the same stuff/calories as on any other day. fool my poor old mind
i had to get rid of any form of nibblers (anything at all potentially snacky) in the house two weeks ago. i just can't do it, i still don't have enough self-control when i know there is a bag of (pretzels, low fat trader joe's cheetos, trail mix, etc.) in the house. I even overate on some trade joes tiny frozen chicken tacos - and those involved BAKING them for 15 minutes, lol. you know it's bad when binging involves cooking!
So I would say eliminate the temptation first. then when you reach for food outside of a meal time, ask yourself first, why you are doing that, make yourself answer and face the issue that's prompting you to reach out for the very thing that got us on the surgery table. i honestly think i will have to work on that emotional eating for the rest of my life.
hang in there, you can do it!!
Inky
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Topic: RE: Tonsillectomy... and I'm scared!
Hey Shakeira,
I had a tonsillectomy when I was 22 and it wasn't fun, that's for sure, like a very bad sore throat. I remember it was a couple weeks til I felt fully better, but like anything else, ever day was a little better.
You're already a pro at liquids and mushy and I know you'll get through it - the payoff was I haven't had a single sore throat since then (knock wood!) and I'm 48 now. Much better than before when i was sick every month.
You know the drill, rest, relax and take care of yourself.
Hugs,
Inky
Topic: RE: Popcorn
I have eaten about 1/4 of a small movie popcorn and it was fine. Such a waste of calories though and a really mindless eating, so I only have it when we see a movie, if at all.
chew chew and chew
Inky
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Topic: RE: Sunday weigh in
Hello Shar and Everyone,
It has been awhile since I have weighted in, but I have been lurking. Things are going pretty good here, but I find myself eating the wrong foods to try and get my weight loss to stop. I'm afraid I am falling back into my old habits.
Pre-op 397 lbs
Today 162 lbs
Total loss 235 lbs and saggy skin EVERYWHERE
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Topic: Sunday weigh in
I am late for work, so this is gonna be real fast..........good morning all
Holding steady at 195.5
149.5 pounds gone forever
And how was your week?
Shar
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Topic: RE: Is this a stage thing or just me???
Well I'm probably of no help to you because I'm sorta in the same boat as you. Lately, all I've been doing is EATING. I seem to be hungry all the time and I'm constantly grazing & nibbling on fluff. I've been putting way too many carbs in my mouth and not nearly enough protein. But even when I eat plenty of protein for the day... I still crave FOOD. I'm also eating way too much bread these days. Problem is I'm enjoying all the food I'm stuffing in my face. It all tastes yummy to me. Wi**** didn't and I could spit it out like you. I'm traveling down a bad path and if I don't get off this path now it will destroy me.
I know what I need to do, now I just gotta kick myself back into gear and stick with the program. Go back to basics and fill up on protein, water and fruits & veggies. Get rid of the junk food, sweets, and breads. I actually gained 3 pounds within the last couple of weeks and I know it's been because of my poor eating habits. We have come too far to throw it all away for a piece of cake, cookies or chips.
To take away that nibbling syndrome snack on cut up veggies and almonds. This keeps your mouth busy crunching and satisfies that need to munch. Stress can destroy us and we need to find ways to control it so it doesn't consume us. Take a few minutes to relax, read a book, read the Bible, talk to God, take a bubble bath, go for a quick walk, watch a movie to take your mind off everything for a while, go get a massage or manicure. Whatever it is take a few minutes for yourself each day and don't let stress destroy all you glorious efforts in losing weight. We have come so far lets not throw it away! Wish I could be more help to you. Hang in there.
Topic: RE: Tired and Starving
I've been going through the same thing as Kim. I am unable to sleep well. I go to bed about 10:30 and am up between 4 & 5 not matter what. I find myself not getting full now when I eat ~ I'm eating almost 3/4 of a cup of food at a time and that's a lot for me as about 6 weeks ago I could barely get in 2/3 of a cup. I just looked and my B-12 is 2500mcg but not complex. I have some at work as well that is 500mcg that I usually take around 3pm.
I'm also very depressed for which I take prozac and effexor...but it doesn't seem to be enough???
I'm struggling to maintain and would even like to lose another 5 pounds (this would be against dr. recommendation thoug).
Got any suggestions????
Topic: RE: Tired and Starving
I've been going through the same thing. I am unable to sleep well. I go to bed about 10:30 and am up between 4 & 5 not matter what. I find myself not getting full now when I eat ~ I'm eating almost 3/4 of a cup of food at a time and that's a lot for me as about 6 weeks ago I could barely get in 2/3 of a cup. I just looked and my B-12 is 2500mcg but not complex. I have some at work as well that is 500mcg that I usually take around 3pm.
I'm also very depressed for which I take prozac and effexor...but it doesn't seem to be enough???
I'm struggling to maintain and would even like to lose another 5 pounds (this would be against dr. recommendation thoug).
Topic: RE: Tonsillectomy... and I'm scared!
Oh Shakeira I know nothing about this type of surgery but I will definitely keep you in my prayers. The liquid diet for 2 weeks will probably help you drop a couple more pounds which is a nice fringe benefit. Get lots of rest and drink your protein shakes and hopefully your recovery will be quick and with very little pain. Hugs!