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I have always weighted heavier then my hubby since I met him at age 14 He was 110 6ft and skinny and annorexic looking from the get go and I was 125 when I met him I spent many hours in pool swimming and he was a runner. I became morbid obese when I started to have children. I always wanted him to carry me over the threshold but to this date he could never carry more than him. Maybe when I reach goal he can do that.. if our marriage survives .. He became morbid obese in his 40's and developed 12 co morbities even his HMO over turned the Medical group NO decison to have a RNY, He had his RNY AUG 29 2006 He met goal with in 6 mos and weighted 179 but has since gained a few lbs back and cannot seem to get below 190 in last 6 mos but he does not exercise and eats junk food and does not eat protien like he should as it makes him vomit to eat meat. He has not learned to eat properly and suffers from severe osteoporis and has developed kyposis he really WAS NOT THE IDEAL PERSON that should not have had the RNY surgery as his years of anorexic poor eating has caused weak bones. He has to take calcuium supplaments plus he takes reclasp for bone density as his density is getting worse threw malabsorbtion.Who would have known he had osteoporis with morbid obesity but it was hiding under the layers of fat. He does take supplements but he is not taking peoper care of his body no matter how much I nag so I gave up trying to teach/nag him. He said I wish I knew about the lap band and I said u did not have the luxury to lose slowly like I am He already had a pulmonary embolism and u were knocking at deaths door. He does looks good at 193.. I am 191.4 and still do not look good.. I still have the figure of a tick and most people tell him he looks great or to skinny and no one notices I have lost 104 lbs because it came of sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo slow.. I keep telling my self we are not in competion but u know we are LOL . He He feels good to be less then hubby after all I am shorter then he is I am 5'7". Next goal hmmmmmmmm have to think of that one. I been hitting so many lately. Feels soooooooooooo good .. I seriously never thought I would be looking at 180 this soon.. I maybe a turtle in this battle and slowly lose but no matter how slow I lose is the fact is I am 191.. not 295 lbs Lisa

Lisa, I also have weighed more than my hubby until now. I am at 158# and he weighs 178#. I feel really good about that. Keep up the good work on losing. It is good to lose the weight slower. Jan

Lisa Oh yeah you go Girl!!!!!! My husband is 6'2 and 178 he is starting add some weight (metabolism I think is finally slowing down) I don't think I can physically get under his weight but man I would love it love it love it!! I have my personal goal of 195 but would flip for 167(normal weight for my height lololololololol) congrats to you dee